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writes:A lad and I who i work with having been seeing each other for a few weeks, just sex nothing serious. I fancied him from the second i met him ( 7 months ago ) but he was with his ex. We flirted a lot till i found out he had a girlfriend from another member of staff but as soon as they broke up he started texting me again. We went from there and its great sex but i want more. I really like him. He says he doesnt want a relationship yet but he doesnt want to be with anyone else ( meaning intercourse). Im confused to hell! Also he isnt shy to be flirty with me at work. My friends say to give him the shove but i really dont want too. Help?!
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (1 December 2012):
 He has already said he doesn't want a relationship with you. He doesn't want to find somebody else to have sex with, you are handy and willing so why should he.
If you don't have a problem with being on call for a quick roll in the hay with out the usual expected pay off of engagement on an emotional level and a relationship then carry on as you are. If however, you would like a relationship and all that entails then yes, take the advice of your frinds and give him the shove. You are merely his stop gap girl, good enough to root until his next girlfriend comes along, and then it will be byr byr you.
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reader, babalou +, writes (1 December 2012):
 Simple. If he wants to be in a relationship with you, more than sex, it will be. If he insists on only sex, let him go. If you have feelings for him, things will only get more complicated with time. If sex isn't enough for you, but it's all he's willing to offer, you need to move on and find someone who will allow you to have both.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2012): I've been there and it won't work out . Then things r just really weird at work.
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