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anonymous
writes:My ex, now married, is talking to me on a regular basis and telling me what's going on in his life. Is he interested in me again or just want someone to talk to???
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (1 December 2012):
 He wants to see if he can get you back in to bed.
Case closed....
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reader, mickey939 +, writes (1 December 2012):
If he is sill interested in you that means that he is talking to you about his life just to get your attention and see how his new life is with out ou. He thinking it would bother you that now he is married but if not maybe he just wants to be friends again. And had mature enough to let the past go and see you as a friend. But the way it looks like it and he talking to you about his life maybe because he want your attention again.
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reader, mickey939 +, writes (1 December 2012):
If he is still interested in you that means that he is talking to you about his life just to get your attention and see how his new life is with out you. He is thinking it would bother you that now he is married but if not maybe he just wants to be friends again. And had mature enough to let the past go and see you as a friend. But the way it looks like it and he talking to you about his life maybe because he wants your attention again.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (1 December 2012):
 It's hard to say why he is doing it, but I don't think it;s a good idea. He is newly married and talking to the ex (even if it's innocent) is just playing with fire.
I would NOT expect that he is talking to you because he is interested in you again, but there is a sense of familiarity with you.
I personally, wouldn't talk to him if you still harbor hope or feelings for him, because YOU would be the one to get hurt when you figure out that he just want someone familiar to talk to or someone to boost his ego.
You don't seem to be over him, so I would really suggest you stop the chit-chat and work on moving on.
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reader, oldbag  +, writes (1 December 2012):
 Hi
He probably feels that you have both moved on enough to enable a friendship. He has a wife and so is unavailable and he will feel you aren't a threat.
You don't have to respond if your not over him or feel uncomfortable though.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2012): He is MARRIED and therefore, to you Ms Healthy, Confident, Strong, WISE - you are not entertaining his Infidelity and Insecurities by ALLOWING him to 'chat you up'.
I suspect your Ex USES women to feel good about himself and may even be a serial cheat.
Married Men, happily and healthy ones, don't have time to waste on the internet. They are too busy being happy to fall for the 'distraction' of the internet because they are spending their free time wholesomely and with their Spouses.
Block Him and pay attention to ONLY single, emotionally available, healthy, happy Men.
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