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male
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30-35,
*0610
writes: Would it be cheating if my girlfriend went on internet and talked to some guy and they had a little romance over the internet for not a long time before i cought her. She then told me they did nothing. But I read the email and they were flirting and calling eachother names like sexy, beautiful, handsome, etc... They wanted to hang out and get coffee and go out like ice skating and for walks. She then texted him and I dont know hwat went on after that besides that she went to target to see him at work.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2012): she cheated on you bro
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reader, chigirl +, writes (2 December 2012):
Cheating.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (1 December 2012):
yep it's cheating.
ANYTHING you can't don't or won't tell your partner is cheating in my book.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (1 December 2012):
Yes. It is emotionally cheating. And that fact that she met up with him speaks volumes - doesn't matter that their didn't have sex.. it's STILL cheating.
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reader, 10610 +, writes (1 December 2012):
10610 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your time and answering my question. I really wanted to get this straight because she said she has never cheated on me but that tells me different. Thank you for answering! :)
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reader, Anonymous 123 +, writes (1 December 2012):
Yes OP that's cheating. Many people tend to think that cheating involves sex and only sex but there are other ways of cheating too and this is one of them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2012): Yes OP that's cheating. That's called emotional cheating.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Emotional_affair
OP the only person allowed to romance your girlfriend is you if you're in an exclusive relationship.
She cheated.
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reader, babalou +, writes (1 December 2012):
Definitely cheating. Seems like if you didn't catch her she might have taken things further, so yes. Especially since she was doing these things without you knowing. If it would have been something she talked to you about and you explicitly acknowledged it as something you were okay with and something you both saw as nothing, then it would have been justified. The fact that she never mentioned these things to you shows that she was sneaking around.
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