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writes:this friend i have we've met quite a few time and texted abit as well. we've always met with her friends. Then a few days ago she texted me to meet up after i had college and it was just me and her. we walked around and eventually sat down and just talked mostly about her previous relationships and how to ask a girl out and how first dates etc. also i told her how ive never had a girlfriend. she also said she'd try and "set me up" with her friend. she said about inviting me ot the day after and shed say she would let me know where to meet and she didn't speak to me all day no responses or anything. I felt down about it and i sent her a message saying how much she means to me which is a lot and how shes so beautiful etc she has seen the message but no response yet i really regret it now and i'm scared i've not just lost a chance with her but lost her as a friend is there anyway i can fix this? i can live with her as a friend just what do i do to fix this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2012): Sounds like she thought this was platonic relationship and you were hoping your status could change.
From her reaction, I'm guessing she doesn't know how to react and so she isn't responding.
If you really want her as a just friend, apologize for being too forward and let her know you value her friendship. Give her her space for a couple weeks. Don't contact her and let her initiate.
If you are really angling for her as a girlfriend, date someone else. More likley than not, if she's got any feelign for you she'll become running.
Good luck.
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reader, babalou +, writes (1 December 2012):
 Wait a few days and if she doesn't respond, it wouldn't hurt to wait a little longer and tell her that you just had to say it to get it off your chest. Tell her that you wouldn't mind staying friends with her. The worst thing you could do is talk to her again and pretend it never happened. If she agrees to stay friends with you, go on as if it never happened then. Also, try not to be awkward. She may just need time to take in what you said.
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