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writes:Hey my friend wants to know what this means, she and this guy knew each other for 10 years, since then they liked each other but was to scared to say it until 2 years ago when they finally told each other. so they started something and its been 11 months now but he's really jealous and gets mad easily but she really loves him and he loves her too but they fight a lot and she doesn't know what to do because she doesn't wanne let go he doesn't want her to talk to guys and wants everything his way or no way at all. do you think she must stay with him? Because she doesn't wanne listen because as I said already they love each other but its breaking her and its my friend so please help me help her to see the light she says he's the one for her and doesn't want anyone else in her life she does everything he asks her to do xx me
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2012): there's nothing you can do but her learn from her won mistakes. if you interfere then she'll just side with and think you're a bitch for trying to break them up.
read this and get her to read this and be prepared to take a step back because you can't afford to sucked in.
http://www.drjoecarver.com/clients/49355/File/IdentifyingLosers.html
OP he sounds like a loser and your friend sounds like an idiot, so just let her learn her own lesson the hard way and be her friend when it ends to support her but don't mixed up in their shit. If she wants to be an idiot then let her be an idiot.
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reader, MushyP  +, writes (24 August 2012):
All I can say is you don't know what is going on behind closed doors. A relationship is tricky to understand even when you are in it. To help your friend just get her out and about.Away from her boyfriend as much as possible. That way she will love the freedom and will make the decision to dump him. Also take her out with other couples that don't fight, she will see that what she has can be soooo much better with the right person. But be careful, if she doesn't break up with him soon then she will start hating you as you dislike the man she loves. And if he ever finds out that you don't like him, then he may even tell her to stop seeing you. Hope it helps xx
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