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writes:Let me explain my situation first. I am a 27 years old male, I’ve only dated one girl in the past and I was 22. At first, our relationship was great. Our sexual relationship was great! On some occasion while having sex, we imagined as if she was doing it with some of the people we knew, I was fine with all that as long it was fantasy.Later we started to dispute quite frequently. This often happened because she was flirting (I believe) with other guys and I end up being jealous. Sometimes after our dispute, she would flirt even more. If I could describe her personality in some few words, she was manipulative, self-centred and baby like attitude. As our relationship was not working, I later put end to it.Like a year after our breakup, I started to get aroused about her sleeping with some of her guy friends. I also had thoughts of her having sex in a missionary position with a black guy who would then ejaculated inside her. I consider myself sexually curious, and before I knew her I was already interested in various sorts of porn like shemale, BBW and gay. However, since then I started to be interested in cuckold, hotwife and interracial sex, I even fantasized sucking a black guy’s penis. I know that I am not gay as I like women and I am even trying to date one now. I would like to note that I despised affairs, I wouldn't want that to happen to me, but at the same time, the idea of a sexually open or promiscuous woman turns me on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2012): Hello fellow canadian
Yes past relationships can influence sexual tendencies, cause through these relationships we learn new things. That can alter the way we see things sexually, things that we once didnt care for or even disliked, because then we didnt really think deep into these fantasies not giving them a chance.
I actually kinda had the same thoughts after a relationship, not as far as same sex stuff but things like threesomes, double penetration and fantasizing about her having dirty sex with other men, and her using a strap on. Basically things i once found unapealing and gross (and now do again except for the strap on thing).
I think what my situation and possible yours is that we got bored being it has been awhile. Bored curious minds tend to start to wonder and think of things. Nothing wrong with these fantasies, just like being experimental in your mind. After a while if these fantasies still stand maybe try them but be careful with what you should try and what should stay fantasy and most importantly what should stay to yourself when dating someone. These kind of things can hurt someone or make them uncomfortable.
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