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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Met a girl before summer break.. went on a few dates, things were great, but don't know each other that well yet.While we've been apart we've been texting but she's gradually lost interest in me.. says she doesn't think about me anymore, but wants to get to know me once college starts again. Which is fine, and even what I expected for being apart for 2/3 months, but...I think I acted too clingy, always texted her, tried too hard to be sweet in texts, saying she was different etc... and I think that's what pushed her away, but I'm not sure. Would she really think less of me just through texts like that, rather than through spending time in person??Because things were great when we were together in person, and I think things will be the same as long as she hasn't judged me too harshly..?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2012): Well man sometimes to much attention to soon will make people feel smothered or make you seem desperate, which both can ultimitly push them away.
She said she wants to get to know you man, kinda a second chance here dont blow it give her some space. Give her a chance to start conversations too when the time comes at college. She may see you as just a friend so dont get ahead of yourself to soon, and if she doesnt start conversations and sometimes doesnt even reply she is not interested. Dont be hard on yourself if this happens man it happens and life goes on.
You kinda remind me of me once a upon a time lol, remember give her a chance to start things, dont smother.
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