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Am I wasting my time? I really love him and I don't want to get over him!!

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Question - (26 November 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 26 November 2011)
A female Australia age 26-29, *onfuzzies801 writes:

Hi 

So I like this guy and I've liked him nearly all year and I asked him out about 4 weeks ago..

He said no because he wasn't ready for a girlfriend but he liked me as well.. Liked me more than any other girl..

My bestfriend asked him if he still liked me a few days a go nd he said yes but it dosent seem like he does caus I only really get to talk to him on Facebook and that's really hard to tell..

But you see we go to different schools so I've only really seen him 3 times since I asked him out.. Last time I saw him we had a really fun time I think but I haven't talked to him since..

But I am so confused on what I should do now.. I keep thinking what if I wait for him till he's ready but then I find out he doesn't like me anymore and I just waste my time

Or should I try to get over him and ruin the chance of us maybe being together in the future.. 

I don't want to waste my time worrying about us when in the end it might turn out to be nothing but I really love him and I don't want to get over him!!

Should I wait or move on?

Please help me it's been annoying me alot

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (26 November 2011):

Honeypie agony auntHe told you he isn't ready for a GF or a relationship, so honestly you can stay in touch with him, be his friend, but I would honestly not hold my breath for him to change him mind any time soon.

What the hurry?

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