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writes:I was just wondering about female statistics, something me and my partner were talking about. Ladies, have you had more sexual (intercourse) partners than oral sex partners or have you masturbated more partners? For example, my partner (I've asked her permission to write this)has had 7 sexual partners, 5 oral sex partners, but has masturbated 9 men (she thinks). I said that I was surprised that she had fewer oral sex partners than actual sex partners. She said that with the exception of a couple people she masturbated they were all the people she slept with. Is this the norm? I say not. Can you help settle this little fun feud. Thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThese are interesting answers, but no real definitive answer. I am pleased that we've found people that have wondered about it too. I think it's varying really in results with no real norm. I don't think it's a case of time wasting either. We wanted to know and there are people out there that are also intrigued. We could do with more answers though. Just to see if there really is a a set pattern. Thanks to those who have answered so far. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2011): I don't think you're wasting your time if you're interested. You're probably not going to get anything scientifically accurate, but I've wondered about the same things at times.
I think oral sex is a lot more common than it used to be...this is at least the sense I get from talking to my mother and reading a lot of the questions from teenagers on this site. I think people generally start oral sex as an alternative to intercourse a lot sooner than they did 40 years ago.
I would have assumed the same thing you did....you would have a high ratio to oral/hand to actual intercourse, but doesn't seem to be the case with this group.
9 partners. I exchanged oral with maybe 7 of them... Handjobs...I would defer to the opinion of the anon below tennisstar88.
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reader, MikeEa1  +, writes (27 November 2011):
 I think you are wasting your time thinking about this. Statistics about physical activities are not important. Relationships and learning are important. Learn to feel beautiful thoughts and send them to fellowman. Learn how to absorb the love that people are sending you.
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reader, Miamine +, writes (27 November 2011):
 I guess this is one of these intellectual discussions, where everyone gets heated and upset. If it's a case of more sex than oral, then I guess your lady wins. Her experience is probably more common. I think the situation is different for men.
Your turn to do the dishes then.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2011): Intercourse: 4
Oral on male: 5
Oral on me: 4
Fooled around just with fingers: (fingering or handjobs) 6 or 7
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reader, Miamine +, writes (27 November 2011):
More sex partners than oral, masturbation is hard, because we women don't remember them so much. Masturbation partners start earlier, and that's why we forget... I think mine is probably, sex partners, masturbation partners, then oral.
I think, but the memory isn't so good now.
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reader, Shadow Rose  +, writes (27 November 2011):
 I'm probably not very helpful in this scenario, because I've only ever had one partner, and we haven't had sex yet since we aren't married yet xD So one for hand job, one for oral, none for intercourse.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (27 November 2011):
 You're not going to find an accurate poll on here. Better off searching the internet.
You would have to poll a certain group of women, a particular age (and whatever other traits) to prove your point.
Sexual partners leads with 17. The rest, I really don't keep track of. I doubt any women would recall all the info. It's just not necessary.
What's more important is regularly getting yourself tested for STDs.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2011): 8 intercourse partners, 7 of which I've performed oral for. I've received oral from 5 of these partners. 6 if including a woman I dated for a while.
Hand jobs? I never really caught the hang of them. I figure if he's been doing it one way his whole life, who am I to try to improve on a well established routine? It kind of like asking someone to brush your teeth for you, no?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWe were discussing it because we were interested in it. I assumed that the results would be a higher percentage of hand jobs, followed by intercourse, and then oral. My partner disagreed and gave me her stats. As I'm not jealous it didn't bother me, and we just wondered what the answer would be. It is certainly not a complaint, but just a musing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2011): What purpose does it serve to dissect it thusly? I could see if it was for a paper but even then, you would, at most get 7 responses and that isn't even enough data to form an accurate sumation of such...stats.
If its about a complaint about not getting oral sex- join the club. Not too many women enjoy such a thing; its been a complaint of this site for 5 years by countless men.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2011): I've had 14 partners. 13 were intercourse. 14 were bj.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSorry to clarify I did mean my partner has performed hand jobs on 9 people. Not them performed on her. But I'll ask her now. ;)
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (26 November 2011):
 What does "masturbated more partners" mean? Masturbation is an act you do on yourself, not others. Do you mean a handjob?
I've probably had more intercourse partners than I've had partners perform oral sex on me, I'm quite peculiar about who I let go down on me.
I think that while guys may have more people go down on them, plenty of girls consider oral sex (performed on the girl) a much more personal act that intercourse. I also consider blowjobs a rather more intimate act that intercourse. So to me it's not strange at all to have more intercourse partners than oral sex partners.
As for handjobs... don't let guys touch me much either, can't remember how many men I've wanked. I usually do hand jobs as foreplay, only rarely have I ever done a handjob alone. But if you mean how many men I've given a pure handjob, without anything else, or how many men have given ME a pure handjob without anything else, the number is zero on handjobs performed on me, and maybe 2-3 on handjobs performed on them.
Intercourse partners, somewhere around 15-20. Oral sex partners, done on me: 5. Oral sex partners performed on others... I have no idea, haven't counted. Maybe 7-9.
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reader, mammaboo +, writes (26 November 2011):
 I have never heard of anyone splitting their relationships into who does what.I suppose it depends on you and how you see sex. I have personally shared many experiences with my partner and we are in a very loving relationship.
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