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*mmiie
writes:Hey... Basically, I've liked this guy for about a year now, and he knows I like him. At first, i thought my infatuation would go away, but it hasn't. I don't want to like him, because he is really perverted, and asks me to send him pictures and sexts ect, but i don't want to move on, because I have liked him for so long, my life would feel really weird without him. Plus, i get quite sad when i don't talk to him. He likes talking to me, but he doesn't love me. He is also really sweet and actually really nice, besides being a pervert, and we are friends. He can be so lovely, and he gets quite jealous if i talk to other guys. Anyway, my question is, should i give up on him? what would be the best way to show him i care (a lot) - i've tried talking to him - and do you think that i should stop talking to him, or remain friends?I honestly do love/am infatuated with him, Thanks. x
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reader, Emmiie +, writes (7 December 2011):
Emmiie is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks :)
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reader, mammaboo +, writes (26 November 2011):
 I hope you don,t oblige this boy in any way.I hope you have alot more self respect than that. You are to young to feel really weird without some one like this. It sound s like he is already manipulating you and grooming you. Get as far away from him as possible.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2011): I honestly feel that porn and the attitude that it sends to young men is that young women are just sex objects that dont deserve respect.
It seems more young men have become sexual bullies that can lead to sexual predators aka rapists, sexual abusers.
They DEMAND more naked images, sexts, and seek out young women to feed their pervisions and base desires.
What happened to crushing, teen age love? The innocent, joyful parts of being a youth? Of holding hands, kissing? Hugging and just hanging out at malls, movies, friends homes? Focusing on school and innocent flirting with out sex talk? Playful banter?
SEX is NOT the be all.
And I would stay away from ANY young man that thinks all you are is some girl to help him get off.
Don't re-inforce his poor view of women and tell him you won't be the girl who has low self esteem and be bullied into sending images only your Special Loved One (Husband) deserves, or sexting anytime soon with just anyone. That is reserved for a special loved one which won't be happening anytime soon.
You are only 'crushing' because he is paying you attention, and not the good, loving kind either.
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reader, nishi594  +, writes (26 November 2011):
I know you like this guy but you need to ask yourself if you really want to the extra mile for a guy who probably just wants to use you. Also first of all you need to figure out if he's just joking when he ask's for pictures and stuff or if he's serious and if he is serious he is not the right kinda guy for you. But if you honestly dont want to give up then give this thing just one more shot. Like you said that he gets jealous if you talk to other guys i think thats the key here, make him jealous and he'll get around just perfect.
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