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writes:I havent used this site in a while now but here goes, i started a new job in september and everything is going good.I have made some new friends which is always a bonus :) but there is this one guy we'll call R, he's really shy but he's good looking and witty and always very polite. He's gone a few nights out with the team and he makes me laugh and I've found myself very attracted to him. I eventually worked up the courage to ask him out but he sadly said that he didnt think it was a good idea as i'd only been there a month? i don't know :( so i did the usual say that wasn't a problem and carried on talking to him. i asked him out at the end of september, when he turned me down, but now he'll smile everytime i catch him looking at me. Or he'll open the door for me and touch my side as a gesture to go first.We kind of thought at one point he was gay but are now pretty sure he's not. So now i'm left wondering if he actually likes me.Now he's gotten to know me a bit more or if he's just being friendly. I am quite outgoing and bubbly and he's quite introverted and shy. So i'm not quite sure what's going on.If anyone could give any suggestions please feel free, as i'm stumped :)
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (26 November 2011):
 I gotta agree with CindyCares.... pretty much word for word...
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (26 November 2011):
 Alas, it sounds to me like a very polite brush off. I mean, the point of going out on a date is to get to know the other person better and closer than in the environment where you have met her ( work, school, gym, club... ) , it's a shortcut, I think that if he had had an interest for you " that way " he would have just jumped at the chance he was offered , even more so being a shy guy who has trouble taking chances on his own.
The reason why he is nice to you is probably that he likes you as a person and as a coworker. He may think that you are a great gal, just not dating material.
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