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writes:i feel like my husband has gone off me i feel loneley we hardly ever make love we usually have sex which lasts about 5 mins on a saturday its always the same position and he has taken speed i feel like he has changed so much and i cant cope anymore i love him so much i want to make love as much as i can but just feel so empty and i feel like i am going off him and i dont want to feel like this as i love him more than anythinge i have tried talking to him and he says he will change but it has been going on too long what can i do i just want to cry all the time and my head is wrecked so much i cant say much more. Reply to this Question
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reader, mammaboo +, writes (26 November 2011):
 Chalice is rite get some advice and learn more about the drug he his taking it will help you understand this better. It will also help you with any decisions you may want to make. Get some counselling for yourself so that you can sound off your concerns and worries and help you think more clearly.Hope to hear from you soon!
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reader, Starlights +, writes (26 November 2011):
 I understand where you are coming from.
Youve tried talking to him which is good but he hasnt done much to compromise with you or finds it hard to tackle this.
If you want to rescue this marriage prehaps think about going to marriage therapy?
There could be reasons why he's acting his way which you may not understand or know about.
Unless you both can come to some agreement and get some help you both will be pushing each other further apart, trust me ive been there.
Hope this helps!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2011): Please get yourself some support ASAP. Join a local addictions group. Get strong by the support of others who are in your same situation.
Things can get better but you will need to do it alone. When you are stronger, you can make a healthier decision. Also find some individual counselling.
You need to understand the hold and effect of the drugs your Husband is under and that he will need help.
But, focus on you FIRST.
Hang in there!
We wait for your reply that you are getting help and with it stronger.
xoxox
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