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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My girlfriend's ex is around all the time with their son. Its too much!

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20 August 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I met this girl "megan" 2 yrs ago through work, she was dating a jerk to say the least. she was madly in love with him and couldnt see how big of an ass he was. A few months after meeting her she got pregnant, he cheated on her several times through out her pregnancy and then ... (334 words)

14 year old student hitting on me. How do I solve this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

20 August 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - This 14 year old girl has a obsessive crush on me. It all started when I was looking for a part time job. I’m a college student and I’m living in an apartment with my roommates. As I was good in maths I decided to teach maths at high school to the ninth graders. Several... (342 words)

I didn't ask for her number and now I miss her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

20 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Met up with my buddy to discuss a trip. Brought some booze, he brought some too = Too much booze. Typical situation. Well here's the kicker; he brought his colleague along this time. I don't know if it was intentional but he isolated himself from us after awhile, literall... (437 words)

Is he being unfair expecting me to orgasm the same time as him?

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20 August 2011 (?) age 41-50 - Is it normal for a guy to expect that if his past experiences have been with girls who have had an orgasm at the same quick time as him, to expect me to? I told him it takes me longer to get there and that I need oral and stimulation to get me there. However, he just doesn't ... (153 words)

Am I just another boy toy to her?

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20 August 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - So there is this girl who i've been friends with for about a year or so. We've been good friends but i never considered anything more happening. She is really attractive but i never thought she would want to be with me and i also thought she was lesbian so i convinced myself n... (265 words)

He likes to french kiss! I don't!

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20 August 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - What do I do when my boyfriend likes to tongue but I actually hate it with a passion, what should I do?... (22 words)

Is it weird that I'm sad that I no longer miss my ex?

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20 August 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Last night, I had a dream about my ex-girlfriend. But when I woke , I didn’t start missing her as it used to be the case just few months back. She dumped me almost one year ago and she thought I was not financial stable and there was class difference between me and h... (238 words)

Do men suffer as much as women over a break-up?

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20 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - How many of the men actually suffer after a break-up? I don't mean SHOWING that they suffer, but do they feel for example in the beginning that it seems life can't go on without the person they were used to be with every day? Does it still hurt to think of someone you loved A ... (92 words)

Fiance so busy! I want him home with me!

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20 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - my fiancee is very busy with his hobbies, am i being selfish by wanting him to stay at home a bit more with me... (24 words)

I enjoy being single, why is everyone asking when I'll get in a relationship?

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20 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Im happily single dont get me wrong ive been having fun with a few guys (with protection and the pill obviously) but everyone keeps asking me if im with anyone and when im going to get into a relationship. Im only 20! Im enjoying being a single woman ive never knowingly been ... (84 words)

Info about BJ's please

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

20 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright so I'm quite up for basically anything sexually, but I've never given a blowjob. I want to make my boyfriend happy and I really wouldn't mind doing it, but curiosity is killing me. I was just wondering, what does cum taste like, and what is the texture like? Thanks... (56 words)

Is this what dating is supposed to be about? I'm unhappy!

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20 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, This is my first relationship. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 3 months now, except she technically isn't allowed to date due to her fathers strict rule. Because of her father, we haven't been able to see each other often, but when there are opportunitie... (204 words)

My boyfriend is too quiet in bed! Is this normal?

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20 August 2011 (F)

- My new boyfriend is so damn quiet in bed that I dont even know when he orgasms. This is becoming quite embaressing because I keep going and I dont realise that he has already come. There is no noise, no movement, no facial expression, no nothing. Yet I know he does come because ... (92 words)

A question for the guys! How important is it to last in bed?

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20 August 2011 (F)

- This is a question for the guys! Ok, how important is it for guys to last during sex? I ask because my new boyfriend only lasts about 2 minutes before he comes and now hes shying away from sex. To me its not a big deal, because although it would be nice to have an orgasm m... (243 words)

Why don't girls look at me?

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20 August 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a question, mainly for girls. Why don't girls look at me? If I'm with someone, likely they will look at the other person more than me. For example, today I was sitting at a table opposite a friend at work. This girl who I vaguely knew sat down next to me, but kind ... (137 words)

Is it appropriate to add someone to facebook if you just met them?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

20 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - hello, short question. Is it apropriate to add a girl on facebook if you met her at a party?(it was my friends 21st birthday party). We danced all night together, it was exhausting! She started grinding on me a bit as well. I only got her first name, but it is very unique, so i ... (108 words)

How do I rebuild friendships?

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20 August 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I would like to know how to regain my friends? I struggled from a cocaine addiction and lost all of my old friends. This past summer I've been clean and I distanced myself from my "bad" friends. I just need guidance in how to become close with the people I've been freinds with ... (59 words)

ED and overcoming it advise?

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20 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Do any guys have experience of erectile dysfunction and overcoming it? My boyfriend is in his early 40s. At the start of our relationship sex was great. He was really keen and adventurous. Then suddenly things changed after a few months. I noticed a change in his interest in ... (842 words)

Is it possible my boyfriends wants to get back together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4862 days ago

20 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, me and my b/friend split up a few weeks ago we haven't had any contact except for when he picks our children up. Today for the first time he came in and was acting different usually he has the car running and goes straight away, we have started to talk a bit more, he said ... (83 words)

Do women feel different down there? (but not "tight" vs "loose")

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20 August 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I have not been with any women other than my GF in quite a long time. It struck me the other day that she seems to feel a little "different" during intercourse than other women I was with before, but I'm not sure if this is just my imagination/poor memory, etc. I'm not talkin... (202 words)

After a month he just stopped responding. What do I do?

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20 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - For about a month i,ve been texting and meeting up with a friend of a friends brother. Everything was going great until he stood me up and never replied to my texts. He wouldn't even text or call me to let me know he wasn't coming. I haven't texted him since as I have done ... (88 words)

Just makes some sense out of this.

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20 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Have you ever wanted to just shake someone and scream in their ear, "I f***ing love you. Get over yourself already?!" After heartbreak, I met a guy in November of 2009 online. I wasn't even particularly looking to start something new, but there was something about him. I add... (527 words)

He talks to me every day but won't ask me out. Should I stop contact?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4872 days ago

20 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have been in constant contact via text and phone with this guy I met through work. We are always texting or phoning each other and occasionally have a coffee or lunch. We are very flirty with each other and it is def more than. friends, if I don't text him he gets ... (67 words)

She cheated on me, how can I stop being paranoid?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

20 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay well me and my fiance have been together for a little over two years now. When we first started dating she cheated on me with one of my bestfriends and that went on for about a week and her excuse was she didnt think we had a serious relationship, well we got past that but ... (223 words)

How long does it take the know someone and take things slow?

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20 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i barly met this guy on Thurday (8-18-11) after school. i thought he was really cute and so i asked him for his Facebook and number. he gave it to me and i started to talk to him every since thursday. and the more we got to know each other the more we start to liking each ... (91 words)

Was I wrong to break up with him over this?

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20 August 2011 (F) age 51-59 - Hi, wondering if you could give me honest answers please. I cant seem to move on from my first love. There Ive said it. He was 12years my senior, split from his wife for 5years before i met him. He has a great family and i not only fell for him but got friendly with his sibl... (221 words)

BF would rather be with his druggie friends than me. what should I do?

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20 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i really need help. im 19 years old, and i have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. i have lived with him for over a year.when i say live with him, i mean with his parents. i moved out of my parents cause i was unhappy with both of them (they are divorced). both lived on ... (390 words)

I keep revealing too much information. What do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

20 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hey, I'm 26 and I've been with my boyfriend for 12 months. Basically I keep beating myself up about my past and don't know why, It's happened before and I've felt the need to tell him things about my past which has caused arguments (obvs) but more recently We have been on holid... (227 words)

Long Distance has affected our relationship. Is a temporary separation the way to go?

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20 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been dating for over 2 years now. Last year I went to college and she stayed back home in high school which was very tough, but we managed to get through it. Right now we are both getting ready to go to college, but we have gone through a rough patc... (208 words)

He looked at porn that involved a female friend of his, and now I feel cheated on. What do I do

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

20 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have posted this question allready, but it didn't get many responces so I'm posting it again hoping that it will this time, I'm really in need of more advice... I am distraught, I've never been comfortable with porn watching in a relationship, but I've come to accept that t... (583 words)

Did I say the wrong thing and break this up? Or is his reaction the problem?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

20 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i met this guy on plenty of fish coming up to a year in september we havent met yet but we do talk all the time via txt or phone, We have been meaning to meet but for various reasons, different jobs and place we live, it never seem to happen, anyway last nite i asked ... (245 words)

He wants me to allow a violent friend to rent the room in my house. How do I say no to him?

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20 August 2011 (F)

age - I am 50 with him 12 yrs. i do not work and we rent out a room . he is always gone he says to make extra money so why do i put up with people in my home . i dont have anything with him i feel so very bad. yes i do look for work. he says he loves me i believe he does but he has ... (118 words)

I'm thinking deeply and she seems to be living on the surface

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20 August 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a 30 year old man, and so a human being also. As a human, I have evolved over millions of years through a need to survive. This survival not surprisingly has required a strong need to procreate, and hence I am biological geared to be attracted to other humans, namely ... (374 words)

Could he still have access to my computer?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

20 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all I hope there is somebody here who can help me. A few years back I met a guy online, he was a compter wizard and I was having problems with my pc- we were talking through msn at the time and he asked my permission to somehow look through my pc to fix the problem.... (169 words)

Our relationship is in the doldrums because of all the Porn he has watched. What would improve things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4872 days ago

20 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm confused by my feelings. My boyfriend told me he watches a lot of porn, then changed his mind and said he used to watch a lot. Then he said that he's pretty much seen everything and is desensitised to it all now. He joked that he'd have to see something pretty extreme to g... (438 words)

Falling in love was great but now it hurts like hell. I am 50 she is 18. Will she come back to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

20 August 2011 (M)

age - i am a 50 and male,and i have been working with this young woman who is 18. She is the owners daughter so I first was aware of her when she was 11. About 8 months ago,we fell in love,believe it or not, both our first love... i have never dated before and we know each other's ... (158 words)

FB bane of my life. Do I trust him? Or just break up over his lies?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

20 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been with this guy for 7 months and all we really seem to do is argue :/ .. he always adding girls on Facebook and i get really paranoid as to whether he talks to them. So one day me and my friend made a female on Facebook( i know that's wrong of me but i just wanted t... (336 words)

We are mis-matched sexually. How can I resolve this and still keep him in my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

20 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 22 years old and I am in a relationship where ironically the sterotypical roles are reversed. My boyfriend (25) and I have been dating for a little over two months. Funny how it happend...I was in a 4 year relationship in one place then moved to another place to be with ... (637 words)

My girlfriends ex came back to 'see his son'. Turns out he doesn't want to see his son at all, just my girlfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

20 August 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 27, dating a single mum, who's 28, with a young son. She's not seen the father since she was 19 and he was 21; he left right after the baby was born (when she was 20, he 22) and disappeared out of her life, was never heard from again. Until recently. In the past few... (487 words)

I'm in love with my second cousin but she doesn't love me back

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20 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - my mother's sister's husband's brother's daughter. i am in love with her she calls me her second cousin . i really need an answer and she doesn't love me, i am like addicted to her. i know that i cant do that but i cant control my feelings ... (48 words)

I left my lover to return to my wife. my lover just wants to be friends now. nothing more

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4478 days ago

20 August 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a married man with 2 wonderfull children but I just don't love my wife anymore. For this reason I have has a lover for the past year. That is until recently... I left my wife for my lover briefly, but I missed my kids and couldn't handle being without them so I went bac... (264 words)

My girl friend is on a path that will destroy our relationship. Should I continue to see her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

20 August 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been in love with a girl over the past 2 years. she wants to make acting her career, but despite being in love with me she has made up her mind to sleep with other influential men to groom her career. Please suggest what i should do, should i carry on with my rela... (65 words)

I think about him all the time. can I really stay in love with someone so far away and who cannot speak my language?

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20 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I go on holiday every year to the same place as me and my family have friends over there. This year when we was with the friends i met someone who was related to the friend and we all had a good time. The guy liked me from the start and towards the end the feeling became ... (219 words)

Is your life over once you have a child? I am so scared

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20 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I just found out I am pregnant, the baby wasn't planned but I did have unprotected sex stupidly. I am engaged and in a commited relationship so it's not like I will be alone. My fiance so excited about it. > Im so scared to think thats it now and I can never really be al... (88 words)

Does this saga look like we will ever get together for more than friendship?

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20 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - So I went on 2 dates with a guy (but knew him through our sports team beforehand). On our team he was known as an outgoing, confident flirt. But once it was he and I on a date, he was totally different and actually seemed nervous to make moves!! Only hugged at end of first ... (1043 words)

My Mom has upset me. Should I just pack up and go back to where my real home is ?

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20 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Help. I'm depressed and can't talk to my mum about it because she's the cause. She tore apart our family and moved me states away from my brother who's now living with my dad. Me and my mum have moved to 2 different states before a year's time. I hate my life. All my friends ... (193 words)

I feel excluded from things. Is there any way I can change to encourage others to include me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

20 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I know that I am a friendly, caring, conifedent person. That's something that I've started to see for myself recently and a lot of other people have told me that, it's been a continuing trend. But what I don't understand is that people always seem to see me as that nice kid, as ... (88 words)

Can't get it up please help!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

20 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - ok before i ask my question let me tell you some information first... so i was in a 2 year relationship with my recently ex girlfriend. our sex drive towards each other was very strong...we had no problems with that pretty much as soon as i would see her i would go crazy haha ... (362 words)

Thoughts on engagement rings?

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20 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - A friend of mine recently got engaged, and then broke the engagement off last weekend. Her now ex-fiance stated "that was a total waste of $4500" (meaning the amount that he spent on the engagement ring.) I personally agree that $4500 is too much to spend on a ring, and ... (184 words)

Should I go out with him? I really want to to, but I am scared

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

20 August 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so im realllllyyy into this guy. He is my age and seems like a really great guy and all that stuff. but he smokes, does weed, alcohol and isnt a virgin..Yeah i know its all bad stuf, but ive done everythin but sex, ima virgin. I really likie him, but i know i probably ... (115 words)

How do I get over my B/F one night stand in the short time we were not together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

20 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 6 months and I broke up for a week. He had sex with someone else while we were broken up. I broke up with him and wouldn't talk to him and when I finally talked to him after that week I realized I wanted to be with him so we got back together. I realize he d... (142 words)

Should I be concerned that my 26 year old BF now says he is "too young" for marriage?

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20 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - What can a man do when he is in a committed relationship that he cannot do once he gets engaged? I ask because my boyfriend of several years (who I live with) told me last week that he was too young for a marriage committment at 26 when we were talking. All the issues th... (310 words)

Is my problem more about my own jealousy than anything else?

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20 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I really like this girl. And she's a good friend of mine. The problem is she is best friends with another guy. They are way too abnormally close. This concerns me. I have a feeling something will happen between them. She always chooses him to confide in over me. It's like they ... (91 words)

Am I bisexual or what!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

20 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Is this normal! I’m a female that is very much attracted to men; I was in a long term relationship in my early 20's and was very much in love. The issue is I am sexually attracted to women as well as men. I feel I have the capacity to love a man and have. But when... (161 words)

I need to hear the truth. Should I persist with him or am I being too hasty?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

20 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 and I'm in a long distance relationship. I haven't had much experience before this relationship. My previous relationship (my first bf) lasted 2 months and was long distance as well. My current LDR has been going on for 2 years. He lives one side of the country and I ... (1060 words)

I wish my husband would wake up!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

20 August 2011 (F)

age - my husband and are separted he lives in another town about 15 mins from me . he loves music and so do i .all of this was going good until the singer drinks lot and doesnt help out on moving band stuff .any way my husband and i lived with this man and one night at a family ... (190 words)

Girlfriend says I'm rude on the phone

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

20 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Sooo my girlfriend gets pissed at me when i yawn or stretch when im on the phone with her. She says im getting annoyed and bored with her when i am not at all!!! And another thing is she will say baby? And ill say what? And shes like u dont need to be sooo rude!!!! Ughhhhh this ... (66 words)

I'm disabled, how can I get more money when I can't work?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

20 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay I know this is mostly a love related site but i know there are great people on here who can answer my question... Okay im 19 and I was born disabled and since I was born disabled I've never been able to work. SSI gives me $620 a month because they pay according to wor... (184 words)

My ex lied and told me she had a miscarriage and now she wants child support!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

20 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My ex girlfriend lied to me and said that she had a miscarriage but really didn't. She told me the baby had trisomy 18 and my sperm were defective and I'd never be able to have children. Can I sue her for emotional distress i experienced because of it. I found out a few weeks ... (78 words)