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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I get over this amazing girl I knew who now doesn't talk to me? And deal with my fighting parents?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4798 days ago

27 August 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey guys, My parents have been tearing each other down for about 10 years now. Half that time, I've trying to fix their marriage. But its killing me trying to do that. I sleep for at best, 4 hours a night. I've failed a ton of tests at school. I get angry at everyone and eve... (170 words)

First my BF lies about kissing the girl in the bikini, then he says he put the picture up for "revenge" from me, and he doesn't even like her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

27 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have had a boyfriend for a bit over a year. We were not official for a while but always exclusive. We became best friends, even through our ups and downs and were alywas there for eachother. We had a really bad phase a few months ago, but recently things were amazing. To make ... (446 words)

My Gf keeps telling me how her one night stand guy was better than me. How do I handle this and not get so upset?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

27 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Months ago my girlfriend and I had broken up. Soon after we did she had drunken sex with a man she didn't know. well and we had gotten back together and she had told me the details and I was crushed that she had did things with him that we were planning on doing. she said the... (191 words)

Is it normal to feel neglected by your partner and less loved at times? Should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4865 days ago

27 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Earlier today, my boyfriend of 3 years and myself were talking generally about survival. I asked him whether he'd risk his life for mine, and he turns around saying that if there was a chance I'd live, he would. But if I were doomed, there'd be no point in both of us dyin... (212 words)

Is 'friendship only' possible with the opposite sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

27 August 2011 (F)

age - I am a woman who is looking for a friendship" only" with a man- what do you think?... (18 words)

Can anyone explain the possible reasons for his behavior? Is he going through a crisis?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

27 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - A man and his wife had just moved in to manage a small volunteer group. There in the group, they met a several new friends, including me and some members of my family. They start to make good progress with the group. Very soon, he man and his wife became friends with my aunt ... (727 words)

In love with a trucker I have never met?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4864 days ago

27 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - This is going to sound crazy but I met an amazing man about 3 months ago playing poker on my phone through a live app. We have been talking and texting everyday since. The connection seems amazing. I feel like I have known him my entire life. Like this may possibly be the man ... (205 words)

If a man hates a woman, why would he want to see her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

27 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - If a man hates a woman and tries to sabotage her and ignores her....? why would he keep trying to see her or either invite her to a party he's having every time before he has to take a long vacation? they have never been in a relationship. they know each other for many years. b... (86 words)

Why doesn't my old school friend want a relationship with me, but will work 40hours a week with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

27 August 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - An old school friend was going through divorce and we had sex on Valentine's Day.he knew I was crazy about him.Then he just went quiet.I got upset because I felt he used me for sex and I told him that.He said that I really pissed him off saying that.He then went very ... (139 words)

I want him to more of a man - and treat me like a lady!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

27 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I seem to wear the pants in my relationship and don't know how we got to this point. I am a feminine woman for the most part and don't think that I'm aggressive unless someone is really ticking me off. My live in boyfriend says I've changed into a mean person but I feel I have ... (947 words)

He doesn't seem interested in talking to me. Am I wasting my time with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

27 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been talking to this boy on and off for three years now. I like him now more than I have before, but I feel like the roles have changed. Before, he did anything he could to try and be with me. I sort of pushed it off, and now, he's doing the same. I'm not desperate to ... (420 words)

QWEEFING!!!!! help me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

27 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - heyy everyone, well its a well known fact that every woman qweefs :( ive recently discovered this. i was hoping some people might be able to tell me how they prevent qweefing during intercourse. What positions are more likely to make you qweef and which ones less thx :) ... (49 words)

Did I do the right thing passing this guy up because I thought my friend liked him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4865 days ago

27 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Last night a few of my friends and I went to go to a dance club. We were sort of craning our neck to try to spot any attractive guys in the place and there was very few. However, at one point during the night, my friend was able to spot this very tall good looking guy. She was ... (505 words)

My girlfriend has gone away to college, I'm scared she will cheat with her guy friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

27 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend has just gone off to college and we are taking a small break since we will both be at college for some time. We still love each other but when she was leaving she was so excited to go to college that she didn't seem like she would miss me at all. She has also been ... (196 words)

My husband still works with his ex mistress

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

27 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I caught my husband of 16 years cheating on me last september with a woman who works in his office. He broke it off when I found out but he still works with her. I think about it everyday while he's at work. It torments me and I've told him that. He says he can't move to a ... (95 words)

My girlfriend has gone away to college and I miss her so much. How can I fill this void?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

27 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Yesterday my girlfriend of over 2 years left for college. I had a very hard time letting go. Since I'm also going to college in a week we decided to take a break, but our relationship is by no means over and we still love each other so much. Which means I am currently miserable ... (131 words)

My husband says he loves me but he is verbally abusive, sees me just once a month and cares more about my family than he does about me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

27 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Alright, something has been bothering me lately it's about my marriage. I don't know if my husband really loves me or he is just faking it. he tells me he loves me but there are things he does that makes me wonder if he really does. He always find Something bad about me and ... (308 words)

We'd be such a good couple. I want him to ask me out

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

27 August 2011 (?) age 30-35 - Right so there's this guy. Yeah I like him. We hang out a bit, text each other a bit too. Not all the time. But yeah, we've been friends for a year and we fell out this time last year and didn't really talk to each other until January this year. We had a little fling when we ... (369 words)

I really like this girl at work. Does she feel the same?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

27 August 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I've worked with a girl for 4 years. Not along side her, but for the same company. So I have not had much chance to get to know her. But I have had a crush on her for years. Whenever I've tried to talk to her she is very shy, and almost as if she doesn't want to talk. I... (325 words)

Late bloomer or is this it? I'm 19

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

27 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I was just wondering if I could grow any taller. I'm going to be very detailed here so be ready. I just turned 19 on Aug. 3. And the last time I measured myself was Feb 22, 2011. I was about 1/2 and inch taller on Feb 22 than the year before. I'm pretty sure I've been the sa... (405 words)

Is my ex-fiance playing games or is he just too embarrassed to admit he screwed up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

27 August 2011 (F)

age - Is my ex-fiance playing games or is he just too embarrassed to admit he screwed up? My ex left me a yr. ago after 7 yrs. together basically, for someone else although, they did not get together until after he ended it. He also, denies she was the reason he did that to me ... (535 words)

I have family issues, no close friends and have never had a boyfriend. What's wrong with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

27 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel like a looser. I have complex ongoing family issues. Everyone is too preoccupied dealing with their own problems - even I put effort into helping out my mum and sister etcetc to the point where it's adversely affecting my life. I feel like I should help them, and so i... (376 words)

How can I get rid of this guy?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

27 August 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been seeing a guy for over 2 and half years and when I say seeing thats a big joke. He basically comes around just for sex. I have told him and told him that this is not what I want and I want to be respected and spend time with him socially, this never happens and so I... (238 words)

My old friend from school turns our conversations sexual. What does he want from me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

27 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'll really try to make this short. I have an old friend from high school (we are now in college) who has recently given me his number via facebook so we can talk and catch up. Lately we've been texting and the very first day we talked a lot about high school and what we're ... (298 words)

Bf is threatening my future teaching career by posting our sex tape on the Internet. What can I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

27 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help. I don't know what to do? I'm going to become a teacher and as a teacher I cant have porn or any pictures of me. My boyfriend and I made a video last year, and know he is threatening to post it on the internet and says he already has. HELP. Ive been going to college ... (152 words)

I hate talking dirty with my boyfriend, but I feel I can't stop now that we've started.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4865 days ago

27 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so. I've been in a long-distance relationship for a little over a year and I adore my boyfriend. Because of circumstances, we haven't met in person for a couple of years (since before we were together) and it's really not feasible that we could see each other right now, ... (413 words)

Should I keep taking my child to trampolining classes?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

27 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my child does not want to go to her trampolining classes however when she is there she is fine and enjoys the session. she gets upset and says she doesnt want to go should i keep taking her even though it is becoming a struggle? ... (50 words)

He wants to give me oral. I'm nervous about it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

27 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So, my boyfriend and I have been together for a year now and have done nothing sexual. He keeps saying he wants to eat me out and I used to be okay with the idea but now I'm kinda nervous that it'll be weird. Any tips? ... (46 words)

My new boyfriend seems to have stopped being attentive

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4865 days ago

27 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy at a 21st a month ago, I really liked him from the moment I saw him and when we hooked up I knew that I had to see him the next day. I don't get this feeling with everyone so I was delighted to find someone that I actually really like. I've been seeing him just ... (145 words)

Does wearing a condom interfere with a man's sexual pleasure?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

27 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am just being curious. I went out with a guy and he told me that he does not like to wear condom when he have sex as it diminishes his sexual pleasure. So, I always wanted to know, does wearing a condom interferes with a man's sexual pleasure? Is there a difference with or ... (58 words)

I want to be happy being single. Any advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

27 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - DC, how does one lead a single life? I am 30 years old and I can say I have failed to get a partner. Now, I know, I will remain single. Please give me tips of how to live a single fulfilling life. Please, don't tell me where to find the guys coz I actually meet/met them but ... (65 words)

We have sex but he pursues girls, too. I think he has trouble admitting to being gay...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

27 August 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok ... I'm in love with my best friend. He's younger than me. We have sex, we talk and we behave like two people who are in a committed relationship. HE, however, hasn't made peace yet with the fact that he's gay. So, I don't understand how he is willing to have sex with me. ... (208 words)

I've lost interest in my boyfriend. Should I break up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

27 August 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - hi.... i am in a relationship with a boy since 4 years.. at the starting years of my relationship i was oh so lucky but now i feel bored with him and lost all my interest in him... i went out with him 3 times and everytime we end up getting physical he hugged me kissed me and ... (107 words)

Can I be his friend, even though I love him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4864 days ago

27 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Here's the deal: Oscar is perhaps one of the most important people to me. He may be just about the only person who has ever been 100% supportive in all my dreams. He always knows just what to say to me, and I dare say that I sometimes know him better than himself. ... (439 words)

19 and never been kissed. Help me regain my self esteem?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4852 days ago

27 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I am turning 19 in 2 months and i have never been on a date , never beeen kissed , and that has brought down my self esteem... a lot. I dont get it i have an athletic body and sometimes have girls tell me im cute, but never hot :( lol. I just started freshmen year at a ... (103 words)

I've been heartbroken over my former teacher for the last year

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

27 August 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I really need help. For the past year I have been in love with someone. He is a lot older than me. He also used to be my English teacher. I gathered the courage to tell him. He was very understanding about it. I keep having sleepless nights and when I start crying I find it ... (106 words)

I told him I didn't want him to go out with another girl alone but he went anyway!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

27 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have a bit of a problem. I have been dating my boyfriend for six months now and have known him for almost two years before we started dating. I don't have trust issues with him, I know he would never cheat on me. My problem is the other night I had to work but before I ... (265 words)

Do you need instant chemistry with someone to be able to have a good marriage with them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

27 August 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, Does it bode poorly for a marriage that neither my fiancee nor I really had any sexual chemistry at first? We knew each other as friends while she dated a few other people before she claims that she saw me in a sexual way. On my side, it was hardly lust ... (233 words)

Does this dream mean I could be pregnant?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

27 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I dreamt i was with my high school friend that i haven't seen in 7 years. In the dream she told me "wow you're pregnant congrats!" when i woke up i was excited, but now i'm feeling down. Do dreams have any meaning? Am i pregnant? ... (46 words)

Did he break thorough....will I be ok?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

27 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I just turned 20(never done it)and im about close to getting my period but i saw my boyfriend and well he fingered me but when he stopped i saw blood..at first i thought i got my period but i havent, how should i say this, i havent really continued my period..did he break ... (84 words)

We talk a lot. We flirt even more. But he talks to other girls and will not give me his number. Does he like me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

27 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - The story of my life. I've watched the movie (he's just not that into you[LOL]), I've talked to friends who know the guy, aaaannnd? The end result is that we are all completely clueless as to if he is interested in me or not. So I'm writing to get an outsiders point of view... (668 words)

What is the dating 101 advice for my situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

27 August 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey all, I am working at a restaurant as a waiter. There is this girl that works as hostess. She is very nice and pretty. I like to ask her out but don't know how. I also don't know whether I should wait or not because I have just started working there--less than a week--an... (72 words)

Would starting smoking affect the fact I'm taking birth control?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

27 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid...im 17 yrs old and i've been on birth control for about 6 to 7 months. I never smoked anything before but i've been tempted to lately since im always surrounded by people who do that. So i was wondering if i do smoke a cigarrette, how bad would it affect the fact ... (68 words)

My ex has given me private information. Do I tell this to my friends? Or do I just tell my new Gf? I am worried how my new GF will take it.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

27 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. So I had broken up with my girlfriend last thanksgiving because she just didnt really respect me. After a party one night i was a bit sideways and she was and somehow post break up emotions led one thing led to another and yeah. Needless to say is that At that point i... (474 words)

Why do some people become racist and rude and have a problem with interracial relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

27 August 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Why do some people have a problem with interracial relationships? There's this guy that I like and he's white and I'm black, Native American, Puerto Rican, and white, but most people just think I'm black and Puerto Rican. Anyway, were at the mall just hanging out with some fr... (371 words)

I was rude and spoke out of turn to my married mentor. Is there any hope I could turn this around to my advantage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

27 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I find myself attracted to married guy I've been talking to the past year as a mentor. he's attractive and kind. i didnt want him to know as i thought he might not want to talk anymore. i recently got upset and said things i didnt mean such as i was only being nice to you ... (118 words)

My ex-sister-in-law is planning to attend my father's memorial service and reception, while no one from my family wants her to. How do we ask her to stay away?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

27 August 2011 (F)

age - My father's memorial service and reception will be next week and I just found out that my ex-sister-in-law is planning to attend and sit with the family. My father was very angry with this woman for what she did to my brother and their 2 young children. She re-married, a man ... (161 words)

I fear I will never get pregnant. Am I being too pessimistic about this, despite my PolyCystic Ovarian Syndrone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

27 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 30 years old and for the last two years I have been feeling extremely broody. I have two younger sisters who have three children between them, I adore my nieces and nephew and spend all my spare time with them but I feel so empty sometimes when I realise I might never have ... (264 words)

Dominating moves? Or is this his version of passion? Should I ask him to vary his moves?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4865 days ago

27 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I've been having some boyfriend troubles. Whenever we kiss, he always tries to be on top. He'll stand on his tiptoes, and try to press down. When we're sitting, it seems like he trying to move onto my lap, or he tries to knock me down so it looks like I'm laying down ... (81 words)

Can she claim for child-support payments?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

27 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there! Id like to ask if a woman who tricked a man to get herself pregnant can still claim for child support. You see, I'm married to a guy who already has an illegitimate child before we met. The woman admitted she deceived the guy by asking him not to use condoms and ... (348 words)

What should I do to prepare for losing it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

27 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 21 and not a virgin and going to my boyfriends house next friday to hangout and i know we'll end up having sex. What i want to know is what would be really must haves in my purse when going over. The really important ones, just to be prepare. Thanks.... (51 words)

Have I misunderstoond what being bi is about?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

27 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I would identify myself as a bisexual woman, and have known this since I was about 12... But recently there have been a few things said from college debates, stories on the internet that I completely don't understand or agree with- so my question is: have I completely misinter... (295 words)

Sometimes he's sweet and sometimes he's moody

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

27 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is he acting like this? does he even like me? There this guy that I really like. Am chatting to. Some days he's really nice, happy and sweet and other days he's so moody. Like today he rang me and asked me to ring him back, I did and he said to ring him back i... (200 words)

Am I being a doormat?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4866 days ago

27 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My partrner of 11 years has started a job good pay , he provides for me and my son , but we have drifted apart the last few weeks as he keeps going to the pub every Friday straight after work, no dinner or no bath, hr cones back drunk as anything , and gets very mind gaming ... (380 words)