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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Paranoid about girlfriend talking on the phone

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 August 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - am i being paranoid or is it justified for me to be worried when my gf might be talking on her phone and the moment i walk into the room she will not even say bye to the person she will just hang up, when i ask who she is talking to she will just name one of her female friends. ... (352 words)

I've met some I really like, I don't want to scare her off

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

31 August 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi Guys, I've been online dating for a while now and have had lots of dates but - you know how it is - normally they aren't really what you're looking for. However, last week I had a date with this girl and it was truly amazing. She initially made contact with me when I w... (762 words)

How do I stop other women trying to steal my good looking boyfriends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

31 August 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I work with my ex and I have a member of staff that flirts round him and it is making him attracted to her. She is the type of girl that knows how to play it i.e leave them wanting more -as in, she asked him-I know you from somewhere, and it has kept him thinking!! He is very ... (168 words)

How do I make my ex realize that I love him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 August 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I am working with my ex whom I had fallen in love with prior to this.We were school friends and recently met up on the internet.We were talking about how men treat a woman when they know a woman is in love with them.He replied to me,I haven't ever been that lucky.That hurt me ... (65 words)

I am 18 seeing a man double my age. Do I tell my mom or let things ride?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

31 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys i really need your opinion on what to do. I have been seeing this guy who's going to be turning 37 this October, i am 18 turning to 19 next year February. I don't care about the age difference because we talked about it and we are cool with it but the problem is my ... (125 words)

Got family problems going on and me and my boyfriend are fighting constantly

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with this guy since Febuary 27th 2011; I have known him for a long time... I do love him. I feel so lost with out him. In a way I depend on him alot. But we are constantly fighting. I can not stand it at all. I have so much going on, with my grandma being in... (320 words)

Does this joking and grabbing means he likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 August 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So I've known this guy since elementary school, back then we hung out alot with each other and our brothers since were neighbours. In middle school and stuff we weren't really friends and we sort of fought a lot. But this year I'm a freshman and hes a sophomore. We ride the ... (167 words)

Am I wrong to want to spend every weekend with my boyfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

31 August 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi. Here is my issue. Me and my bf have been togther almost 2 years, and i feel there has always been an issue with his friends being very important to him. He works shifts so sometimes I dont get to see him much at weekends. It's not that he spends loads of time with his ... (508 words)

My parents will be upset if I go back to my ex girlfriend. What should I do?

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31 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there everyone, Me and my now-ex broke early january this year. Our relationship turned to a year last November. I feel that I am not over her. I know I am. The thing is it has been 8 months and i'm still dwelling back to the past just to find whether I have been cheate... (198 words)

Should I give my friend ANOTHER chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i had a friend of 4 yrs .i thought her to be my best friend . but my friendship is going through some tense moments for past 1 and a half years. she is an extrovert whereas i'm reserved.. but she has always forced me to become an extrovert like her, to which if i don't... (261 words)

Mum has outstayed her welcome but she has nowhere else to go!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4856 days ago

31 August 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - my 79 year old mum has got a fear of living on her own and spending nights on her own. she is fit and well for her age, she does not even look 79, she is not like a frail old lady. when i had my baby and got a house of my own and moved out she moved out of her house and ca... (773 words)

I am about to start a mixed-sex school. Please give me some tips on talking to girls

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4807 days ago

31 August 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi im 13 years old and just after going to secondary school from an all boys school but ive never talked to a girl before and get nervous when around them and icant even talk to them please give advice on how to talk to a girl... (47 words)

Does my mum have the right to take away my computer?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4857 days ago

31 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19, I've completed a year of university and have recently decided to take a gap year and earn money because I'm not sure if higher education is for me. My mum is threatening to take away my laptop (which she gave to me when I started uni) because she says she only bought it ... (185 words)

Two brothers love me. One is bad one is good. I love them both but I am with the bad one

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4829 days ago

31 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - What do you do when two brothers love you, one is the silent best friend from beginning of high school, and the other is the older bad boy brother who spoke up to share his feelings right away. This is really tough because, the bad boy brother and I had started dating just 1 1... (340 words)

My boyfriend is 22 years older than I am and I lied to my parents about his age!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4860 days ago

31 August 2011 (?) age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2.5 years. I am a South African Indian and he is a White man. I just got divorced from an Indian guy that was the apple of my parents eye. They did not know he treated me badly. After my decision to leave him I met my boyfriend. I ... (196 words)

Not sure wheather to move in together as a family or not

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

31 August 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - hi again you great agony aunts and uncles, i am back again for some advice on what to do, me and my man have been together for over 2 years now, its LDR, and recently we have been having the moving in together talk, but we are unsure what to do, we have a child each from ex ... (342 words)

Why do I feel terrible after giving oral sex to my boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

31 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating a guy for a month and a half. Having had not so great ex's (2 in total) in the past, I wanted to be careful about the next guy I chose to be with. I'm still a virgin, but I've had oral sex (I could classify as a technical virgin or whatnot). The first time I ... (286 words)

G/f gave permission to cheat since she wants to wait till after marriage to have sex

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 August 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I pretty much just met the woman of my dreams... except for one thing. She doesn't want to have sex until marriage. She tells me that she is a virgin and wants to stay that way until she is married. The strange thing is, she has told me that I could have sex with other women ... (126 words)

Why had my boyfriend dumped me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 August 2011 (F)

age - My boyfriend has just dumped me completely out of the blue! We enjoyed a long weekend together and when I said goodbye to him on Monday evening we kissed and arranged to chat in the week. Then he called me today and said ' I just want this stopped' I asked him for an ... (185 words)

G/f talks to ex multiple times a day and now wants to stay at ex's house while doing a course!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 August 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Here we go: Dating a correctional officer for 1 1/2 years who is still friends with her ex (also a correctional officer-I am not). She recently moved into an apartment in the city but her in service is closer to her ex's house-it is a week long course that she has to do every ... (162 words)

I found out b/f has been cheating all along. He's going to be deployed. Do I break up with him or wait?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 August 2011 (?) age 36-40 - I few days ago i found out my boyfriend has been seeing another girl. A few nights ago he was in the bathroom and his phone went off. I looked at it and it was a text from a girl i'd never heard of saying "Hey, looking forward to seeing you too x". I asked him who she was and ... (386 words)

I want the husband and family. Am I too old now?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 27 and my partner of 4 years has just left me for a younger woman. I was meant to get married to him and have a family and no near my 30s I find myself single. Is it too late for me to have the husband and kids? ... (54 words)

LDR boyfriend is coming, there will be lots of sex but thats not what I want

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid My bf and myself stay in separate places like 8 hrs drive from each other. He visits me like 2 months once , but lately he is very moody and not talking to me much in phone and is getting very irriated very often even for small things. Not much is happening in ... (193 words)

How do I politely tell my man to man up, and how do I tell my future mother-in-law, politely, to stay out of our affairs and not to interfere in our plans?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

31 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. I need some advice on how to deal with a domineering future mother-in-law. I have been in a relationship with my guy for the past 5 years, who just graduated and is now working. It is not my intention to marry now as I am still studying. Our original plan was to ... (303 words)

Am I a tart?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

31 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel awful about myself at the moment .. can I ask your opinions, honest answers appreciated. I feel like a complete tart ... I met a guy a year ago we had a couple of nights fun (no sex) just stupid really I had recently become single and suppose was enjoying myself. He was ... (203 words)

Should I give b/f a birthday present even if things are strained?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 August 2011 (?) age 30-35 - dear cupid, i've been dating this guy on and off since april. here pretty recently, we've kind of been having some struggles--he decided that he doesn't feel as happy in our relationship as he used to. i've talked to my mom and his mom about it, and they both think he's just ... (248 words)

Diarrhea every time after anal sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4415 days ago

31 August 2011 (?) age 30-35 - dear cupid, soo...this is kind of a gross question, buuut it's something i've really been kind of concerned about. is there any connection between diahrrea and anal sex? it seems like every time i have anal, i have diahrrea for at least a couple days afterwards. it's... (76 words)

Is it normal to talk dirty on the phone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it normal to talk dirty on phone? U will not beleive a guy was upto me since last 5 years. We both used to sudy in the same class. Through his expressions i knew that he liked me a lot, but i always ignored him becoz i didnot want to be in any relation. Since last 3 years ... (255 words)

Is it normal to sleep with someone else on the stag/hen do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 August 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi. Is it normal for a guy/girl to sleep with someone else on their stag/hen do? I've known people to do this but I dont think I agree with it. Would love to hear some opinions, not just from girls, guys too please! Thanks for reading. ... (48 words)

Is she just with me because I pay for everything? I'm not whom she would normally date

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 August 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - im 24 yrs old and my girlfriend is 28 yrs old. We have been together for abt 2 months and have been living together for 1 month. I recently got out of a relationship and was very hurt. I love this girl alot and even though she says she loves me alot and can see us being married ... (168 words)

Newlywed virgin not had sex yet. Shall I just 'get it over with' even though it hurts?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4857 days ago

31 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So, my husband and I are recently married (only married about a month and a half, so far) but we're still dealing with the issue of my...ahem...virginity...I've never engaged in full intercourse/penetration and we have tried numerous times already, but it is unbelievably ... (139 words)

I'm a coward. How can I know if she has the same feelings as me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - hi! sorry for my english, they are not quite good ... here's my story : a few months ago , i was invited to a party ; i met a girl and now i think i'm in love with her ... you see, i am 16 years old and i am bit shy and coward ... how can i know if that girl has the same fee... (113 words)

Why do women often settle for the nice guy over great sex?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

31 August 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Why do women who are very in need of a solid sex life, settle for men who are not the most sexual? I have seen so many couples lately in my circle of friends where there is a definite mismatch in sex drives, or in some cases, even sexual compatibility. My friends are pretty ... (203 words)

What do I do? I don't want to be the other woman

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

31 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this gorgeous Irish guy in my first year of university and we had a casual relationship, which I am not proud to say was behind my boyfriend's back. I split up with my boyfriend, but the guy I was seeing then got a girlfriend and we lost contact for a while. Recently ... (166 words)

I'm afraid b/f doesn't love me anymore and I'm too afraid to ask him about it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been going out with my boyfriend for nearly 4 months now and im scared he dosnt love me any more, Im so in love with him that I think about him all day everyday but he dosnt seem as interested any more, ive noticed the little things like he dosnt call or text me as much ... (132 words)

How do I get back the girl I fell for?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 August 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - hi everyone. I need some help as i am at aloss as to what to do. My wife to be has massive self image problems and no confidence. She has gained 6 stone since we have been together. This doesnt bother me as she is the girl i have fallen for. But all she says to me is how fat ... (140 words)

Sex for two years and no orgasm! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4859 days ago

31 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I have a problem, I've just finally started to feel sexy an confident in sex after having it for 2 years. But I don't ever climax, its pleasurable and everything but i've not once cummed... is there somethign wrong with me? Also I dont find being fingere a turn o... (80 words)

Why can't I leave my boyfriend when he doesn't even care about us anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 26. been with my boyfriend for 3 years. We have been thru the death of my son, thru drug habits and have come out together quite alright. He has been there for me at my lowest point of my life ever. I feel like this is something I cannot let him go because of. He is like my ... (606 words)

He doesn't want to break up but keeps on cheating on me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 4 years has cheated on me, is over friendly with all his gal pals, always hugging them, getting drunk with them, calling them sweet names, always wanting to be with them, sharing everything with them. He has cheated on me with some of these girls. He says he ... (157 words)

Why I am still stuggling to get over strange ex-girlfriend?

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31 August 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Is it possible that a girl spent 2 years with you and still not sure about her feelings for you? I was a in LDR with a girl who belonged to rich family but I was from middle class. Whenever, we would meet she would sit down on distance from me. She would also make fun of ... (319 words)

He has only made love to me twice in 5 years!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4858 days ago

31 August 2011 (F)

age - I have been living with my boyfriend for the last 9 years after moving from the UK to Canada to be with him. I love him more than anything, but there is a problem with our relationship in the bedroom department. He has only made love to me twice in the last 5 years, and I dont ... (253 words)

Are all woman like this? Or are some more faithful and genuine than my ex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 August 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm just wondering if I'm too trusting or maybe too innocent. I've only been involved in a relationships, on two separate occasions, each time with the same person. In each case she cheated on me with an ex boyfriend. In fact it turns out that she's never been faithful to... (205 words)

Why am I getting "No" so often? What are the requirements to work as a Lap Dancer?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I need some advice as to if I'm just not good enough to get the work I want to do. I hate my job and so am leaving in few weeks and I've decided to lapdance for a while till I figure out what I want to do. I'm degree educated and can talk to people and can dance. I thou... (186 words)

Mixing business with pleasure?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

31 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been working with a guy for 2 years, we knew each other breifly in middle school and so have become friends. Our lunches are at the same time and have always shared relationship woes and given each other advice. When we both were single after these 2 I made a suggestion ... (348 words)

Her first On-Line guy. me. How can I convince her to take a chance with me in person?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

31 August 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been talking to this girl online for a while now. We talk everyday, we tell each other how much we are starting to care about each other and she says she crazy about me. I will be the first guy she's met online, the first issue is that she is really, really ... (341 words)

My ex moved in with his new girlfriend so quickly!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Its so hard to explain how I really feel.. I just recently found out that my ex bf of five years, just moved in with his new gf.. We broke like a year and a half.. He's only been with with this girl a couple of months and he's already living with her!! It crushed me to hear ... (134 words)

How do I break it off with this married man?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4857 days ago

31 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - How in the world do I break it off with the married guy im sleeping with? im tired of him texting only for sex. He doesn't have a real conversation with me anymore. The sex is so wonderful with him but I can't take not being respected anymore. He was my first and true love ... (103 words)

How does one get over a past abusive relatonship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4859 days ago

31 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a question that is been bothering me lately and would love to get opinions on it. I got out of an emotionally abusive relationship about a year and a half ago.(To make the story short I was never good enough) even though people say i should model and I have no problems ... (470 words)

My boyfriend has become jealous and controlling...should I break up with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend has been acting very controlling lately because there are guys who were my long time friends that has a crush on me. Even though I told him I don't act upon it and we're only friends , he say he trust me but that I should stop talking to the guys because he ... (132 words)

Do I break up with my boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm extremely depressed. I told my boyfriend, and he sort of helps, says a few words of encouragement, but then if I dont pursue it, he will drop the topic. He has no idea how truly miserable I am, crying myself to sleep, dark thoughts, etc etc. I feel tired and angry of lea... (140 words)

I need advice for dealing with my menopausal mother

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4852 days ago

31 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I need advice with my menopausical mother. She is in that stage and I try not bother her and just please her and go along without arguing. Sometimes she does things that are hurtful, for example I have spent 3 days painting all the flower pots and making designs on them ... (270 words)

At what point in a relationship do you say I love you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

31 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in an LDR for two years. I have met my boyfriend this past year. He treated me so adoringly I began to feel very nervous. It was almost like I was watching him fall in love with me. We have never said I love you to each other, but compliment each other a lot. ... (146 words)

I want my boyfriend to get fillings before he meets my mother

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - How do I ask my boyfriend to please get his fillings back? It's two of his front teeth. He had told me he lost them again from very bad gritting of his teeth during sleep. He had always been very cautious with his mouth until I asked him. I told him I didn't like him feeling ... (192 words)

Should I leave my partner because we are at different stages in life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I met my partner 3 months before we became a couple. We were just friends and got along really well. He became one of my best friends very quickly and we ended up getting stronger feelings for each other. We have been together for 3 months now and have an amazing emotiona... (434 words)

One minute I want to break up with my boyfriend the next minute I cant live without him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

31 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I've been having a strange issue for the past few months, and I'm wondering if Im bipolar. Sometimes I feel I really need to break up with my boyfriend,and other days I feel I cant live without him. These "need to break up" feelings can turn to a kind of panic in general... (174 words)

Will my strategy to ask her out work?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4859 days ago

31 August 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - She's a good friend, I think we both have feeling for each other, so Im going to make the first move and ask if we could date. Would it be fine (put yourself in her shoes) if I asked her if she had time to quickly meet up during the weekend so that I could talk to her abou... (133 words)

How do I ask my boyfriend if he sees himself married again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 August 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating a great guy for 7 months now. I am 43 and he is 46. I have been divorced for 5 years and he for 10. We really like each other a lot. We have a lot in common. We like each other's kids. We get along well and have good relationship and communication ... (407 words)

My fiancee's promiscuous past disgusts me.

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 4858 days ago

31 August 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Cupid, my wife to be has a promiscuous past, am having second thoughts as am a virgin.am not insecure am just disgusted with how she lived her life. Should i stay or let her down gently... (36 words)

Can insecurities prevent a woman from having an orgasm?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 August 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Can a girls insecurities about her body (weight, how her vagina looks, birthmarks on her face) inhibit her ability to have an orgasm?... (23 words)

How do I broach the virgin topic with this guy I really like?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok I,m going out with this great guy over a month now and I think i,m ready to sleep with him. The thing is I,m a virgin and he doens't exactly know it. like we've messed around a bit but I pushed him away when he tried to go forward and I do have strong feelings for him and it ... (84 words)

Is it possible for me to still grow taller at 19?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

31 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Is it possible for me to still grow taller at 19? I'm a guy and I just turned 19 on August 3. Here's a brief history: -Dad is about 5'8 Mom is about 5'1 3/4. Brother is 22 and 6'1 1/2. Brother stopped growing around 14-16. My dad's uncle was 6'6 and had had a few relati... (114 words)

How do I keep our friendship without hearing them talk about my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4862 days ago

31 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hellooooo there! Okay well, bear with me here, it's sort of long! : My ex's is W. My current boyfriend is R. Okay? Here it goes. When I was dating W, we planned to go to the same college together, which happened to be very far away from where I live but very ... (696 words)