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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:i really need help. im 19 years old, and i have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. i have lived with him for over a year.when i say live with him, i mean with his parents. i moved out of my parents cause i was unhappy with both of them (they are divorced). both lived on opposite sides of the country as me. im all alone, i have family here that wont take me in. trust me i have tried. and now i couldnt even bare it through to live with my parents because both doors are closed. they said they wont help or take me in. me and my boyfriend was close to inseperable, we loved eachother soo much. he has a past of excessive drug use and he is a stoner. i have no problem with him smoking pot...but i cant handle the drugs. he is bipolar and has huge anger problems, we fight all the time. he use to hit me lots and throw me around. hes kicked me out several times even. he even cheated on me at one point. he stopped hitting me, but he now makes everything more important than me. and he thinks im being dumb. i never get to spend time with him anymore. its all about friends,pot and cocaine. i cry all the time which drives him nuts, and he thinks hes gangsta so hes obsessed with acting insensitive and hanging out with dealers and druggies. not one day goes by that he doesnt see a friend. he makes everyone more important than me, and he lies. he treats me like crap. hes stolen from me before even. i never can have anything nice, i never have money cause its always going to him, im always left home alone or dragged some where to meet his low life friends...im trapped i have no where to go i cant just leave...i dont have anyone anymore...im so alone...and i know your like what a bad guy...there are reasons i fell inlove with him...he moved across the province with out anyone knowing to be with me...he dropped everything...then we moved back here....i dont know what to do anymore...please help me...what do i do? where do i go? it hurts so bad.
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reader, pooky.  +, writes (20 August 2011):
 Your parents will always be there for you no matter what. You need to leave him, you love the person he was before not the guy who treats you bad. If you stay with him things will get worst, he can kill you because drugs will always be more important. Leave him, you are a strong woman and have a lot of great things ahead of you, don't let him stop you. Find someone who deserves you, i know you can do it & Good Luck(:
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