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Should I go out with him? I really want to to, but I am scared

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Question - (20 August 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 20 August 2011)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Okay, so im realllllyyy into this guy. He is my age and seems like a really great guy and all that stuff. but he smokes, does weed, alcohol and isnt a virgin..Yeah i know its all bad stuf, but ive done everythin but sex, ima virgin. I really likie him, but i know i probably shouldn date him, but idk what to do. If you look at him, you would never suspect he does that stuff, he looks so innocent, and stuff. I ghuess what im tryin t say, is that idk if i should go out with him, i really want to, but im scared somethn might happen, but then again..i trust him..

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A female reader, bunnyblueeyes United Kingdom +, writes (20 August 2011):

bunnyblueeyes agony auntI'm sorry huny, but 'great guys' generally don't smoke weed. You may end up on avery slippery slope if you go out with this guy.

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A male reader, MrMcgalliard United States +, writes (20 August 2011):

Well I mean if you get along with the kid and he wont pressure you into things or get you into any legal trouble then I say go for it, just dont be dumb about it, think with your brain, not your heart. Good luck and make sure he's actually in to you before he actually gets "in to you"

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A female reader, Aunty Susie Australia +, writes (20 August 2011):

Aunty Susie agony auntHave you heard that saying "Don't judge a book by its cover" ?? Ted Bundy, a famous serial killer in the US, was one of the most innocent looking person, which was how he managed to entice his victims to him so easily. So don't believe that this guys innocent looks will keep you out of trouble. Stay a virgin awhile longer, stay away from this boy and all that other rubbish you've been trying.

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