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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I cant stop thinking about this guy I saw while on holiday in Greece!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

19 August 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - This is a bit of a weird question but anyway i'v just come back from a weeks holiday in greece.I went with my brother and my dad,we decided to go to the waterpark one day. While i was on one of the rides i noticed this guy who was my age or older staring at me. As the day went ... (191 words)

I'm 22, she's 15 is it best to stop before things get started?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

19 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I started talking to this girl recently, she seemed really nice, really pretty. Then one day we find out how old each other is, she thought I was 17, I'm 22, and I thought she was 18, the girl is 15. Nothing has happened for it to be a legal matter but I really still lik... (101 words)

Started on a one night stand then affair then now confused.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

19 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - were both married still @ this moment. we are working in the same company. we both admitted we are attracted to each other before he got married and i was battling my husband infidelity and lack of sense of responsibilty. we shared txt messages, calls, and few occassion of ... (137 words)

I don't want him to think I'm too easy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

19 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 and I've been dating this guy for 3 months and we have recently gotten to second base. He told me he would stop if I didn't feel comfortable, but I like it. The only problem is that I don't want him to think I'm too easy. Are we being to fast? Should I let him touch me?... (59 words)

How do I interest a girl? Build a relationship with a girl? Maintain a commitment with a girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4873 days ago

19 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I want to have a girlfriend I have tried by all means with every girl who has been close to me but I can't find the one who will like me enough to be willing to be with me. It's all just once off communication then after nothing. No feelings to have for me. I haven't had any ... (74 words)

We live 100 miles apart and don't see each other much. Should I end things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4873 days ago

19 August 2011 (F)

age - I'm an almost 60 y/o woman who is dating a 45 y/o man. We live 100 miles apart an at present we don't see each other very often. Should i end the relationship or just hang in there until we can be together? ... (43 words)

My ex(?) shagged my best mate

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

19 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I honestly feel like i,m losing everything. My man stop talking to me so I,ve assumed we're finished and if that is not bad enough a close family friend and my man's best friend told me that he shagged my best mate a month ago. I feel so betrayed by my best friend we,ve been ... (125 words)

I said ILY too soon?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

19 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I really miss him and don't know what to do. I met this lad and fell for him, I knew I liked him the moment he spoke to me. He's very good looking, funny, caring and exactly my type. We messaged eachother for ages and talked on phone and eventually met up. It was perfect and I ... (388 words)

His ex hates me and won't give him a divorce

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

19 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi! Me and my boyfreind have been together for 6 years and have 2 gorgeous kids together, we have a great relatioship and I love him to pieces we got togeth when I was 16, he is 6 yrs older but its never really been an issue! The thing is he has 3 kids from a previous ... (182 words)

I want my wife to have sex with other men

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

19 August 2011 (M)

age - I want my wife to have sex with other men.This wife is #2, we have been married for 14 years, and in year 2 or 3 she said she has never had a orgasm in her life.She was in her late 30's when we got married, she has been with i guess 15 or so men before me.So i know it's not ... (337 words)

My ex, a computer tech, wants me to give him complete access to my computer?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4873 days ago

19 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear agony aunts... something strange happened today. My ex, who is a computer tech, told me to install a program in my computer, wich alows him to access it, whenever i have any kind of trouble. at first, i thought it was ok, beause i'm always asking for his help with... (167 words)

Should we become FWBs?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

19 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been texting this guy for a few weeks and he is really sexy. We've both just come out of relationships and dont want anything serious yet but we had the most mindblowing sex last night i was considering asking if he wants to become FWBs. Should i?... (48 words)

Does this person like me for anything more than sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

19 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This boy who ive known since seventh grade wants to have sex with me. We are both virgins, he's really mature and practical but I'm idealistic and emotional. When I first met him in seventh grade, I had a crush on him. So I actually liked him. Ever since then we would message ... (490 words)

How to stay connected with uni friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

19 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. Next year many of my friends from uni will be taking a year out on a placement year / internship. I'm not sure that I want to do one as I'm thinking of going into teaching and I'm too much of a wimp anyway. The point is I went to uni so I wouldn't miss out and to m... (134 words)

I gave him my number 2 days ago but he's never called. Does that mean he just wasn't interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

19 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I just need some advice. So about a month ago I got a job as a cashier. I was introduced to the other cashiers and our supervisors. There is this one supervisor who I immediately had a crush on. Then 2 weeks ago I found out he gave in his 2 weeks notice and was leaving. That's ... (394 words)

I really want to figure out what is between my friend and I!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4827 days ago

19 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So im really good friends with this guy (he's 19 and I'm 22), who i believe is in the closet (says he's interested in women on facebook and has had not serious girlfriends in the past, and never really talks about it.) He always tells me how good looking i am and i always catch ... (390 words)

Boyfriend is best friends with ex...wife?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4872 days ago

19 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for about a month now. I am 20 and he is 27. We have a lot in common and have become extremely close rapidly, we knew each other for 11 months before dating. From the beginning, my boyfriend had been honest with me about his ... (1504 words)

He watched porn that involved a female friend of his, and now I feel cheated on, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

19 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am distraught, I've never been comfortable with porn watching in a relationship, but I've come to accept that the women that my boyfriend has looked at in the past are women he doesn't know, and would never meet in his lifetime. So I managed to not feel too bad about that, ... (550 words)

How do I tell my room mate that his boyfriend is online looking for others?

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19 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My roommate and his boyfriend have been together about 3 months and generally seemed really happy and cute together. The other day, a friend of mine found the boyfriend's recent profile on a hookup website and OKcupid, saying he was single and looking for a relationship/sex. He ... (110 words)

I'm Madly in love with this girl and want her! Plz help?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

19 August 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi dear frnds. now my story is bit complicated. its been 6 months we are together, the girl is engaged but not officially, like there were only talks between the 2 families, no ring ceremony happened. so technically gal is single. we have been together, enjoy each other company ... (304 words)

What does it mean when an older man tells you to get a boyfriend your age?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

19 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - An older man I was very fond of (and who also liked me very much)suggested I should find myself a boyfriend my age. Does this mean he doesn't like me anymore or just that he cannot handle me? How do I put him behind me if he appears in my mind every day at least once? Am I ... (140 words)

Spanish men or Argentinian Men?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

19 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - If you had to choose between Spanish men or Argentinian men, which would you choose and why? As partner, lover or both?... (22 words)

His comments really hurt me...and now I really don't know what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

19 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my bf have been going through a lil tough patch recently, hes doesnt have time for me and hardly responds via text or rings me. This is possibly due to his long hours and football training. However I dont think it takes much time to send a quick text. In an argument... (199 words)

My girlfriend teases me about having sex but then doesn't follow through

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4831 days ago

19 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a 19 year old virgin guy and I have a great girlfriend though she isn't a virgin oh well. One thing i am haveing a problem with is that she teases me and then when we are about to have sex we stop and she says sorry to me. We were about to have sex one night when she told ... (83 words)

I caught my husband in bed with another woman.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

19 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i saw my husband on bed with another woman may 13 2011 his friends gve me the hint and help me open to reality, the worst day of my life. i hate him now and we have a child. a very beautiful child. i want to teach him a hard lesson??? tell me how?... (55 words)

Should I take a chance and quit my job?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

19 August 2011 (F) - Basically i have been really considering leaving my job in the fall. I feel like i am stuck and after almost 5 years if i stay another year, my job as an assistant will basically be my career. I am also very tired of the labor aspect..being on my feet during a busy season ... (904 words)

Should I contact my first love, or is talking to her too much of a risk?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4873 days ago

19 August 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Should I get back in touch with my first love? We split up over four years ago now after enduring a long distance relationship for two years. It was the single most difficult thing I have ever had to get over. I suffered for a very long time as many of you will know. I did... (268 words)

I forgot to put my birth control patch on for a week...is there a real chance I could get pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

19 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm totally kicking myself for this, but I really need the help and expertise from you guys. I've been on the Evra 'Birth control' Patch for over a year. I've always used it correctly. For those who are not familar with it. You put a new patch on every Sunday and on your peri... (187 words)

How can I enjoy the rest of my teenage life and just stop worrying ? What other support might help?

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19 August 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I have had a really hard time over the last year and a bit, and now i'm wondering whether it has left a permanent scar on my life and my perceptions of things. I used to have loads of confidence, and be willing to do anything for a laugh or just because i felt like it but now ... (672 words)

Why did my FWB guy not tell me he was going on vacation for 2 weeks?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

19 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hi everyone my fwb who i have known for 7 months has just gone on holiday and not even told me i know hes not my boyfriend but i thought he would of told me i only found out cos i have text him twice in two weeks and heard nothing from him so i text him saying he is going to ... (101 words)

For the guys: Do you like it if a girl wears just one perfume? Or changes?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

19 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - GUYS: Do you prefer a girl wears only one perfume or should they change it up? Would you want your girlfriend to use one perfume, always smelling the same, or should she change it up and wear different perfumes all the time? Is it better to have a signature scent? Thanks... (58 words)

How often do people have sex after being together 5 years or more?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

19 August 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - hi guys i was just wondering how often people have sex in a longterm relation ship of over 5 years. I undertand sex slows down but has ours lost to much ... (31 words)

I thought I was pregnant and needed some empathy from DC but I didn't get it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

19 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid, you have done an excellent job and I am happy to be connected to this page. However, when I enquired if I could be pregnant(anonymous, 30 yo, fingered,?preganant),I needed an answer with some empathy. Your response was correct but insensitive to my state of mind ... (176 words)

What do guys think of girls with tattoos?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

19 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Question for guys please..what do you think of girls with tattoos?!? I'm 33, attractive and single and I have 2 tattoos, one tribal design on my lower back and some writing down my wrist. Both are small and plain black. However I'm worried it puts men off me. I like to be ... (121 words)

I'm in love with someone who doesn't want me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

19 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I feel very down as I have done something so stupid. I'm 32 and in love with someone who doesn't want me. We've been "seeing each other" for 5 months and usual he told me at start he doesn't want a relationship but we both fall for each other as a result we now say I love ... (330 words)

I've masturbated for years but can't get there having sex with my boyfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

19 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm having a bit of a sex problem ... Okay so I have been masterbating since I was 4 but with a book so when I started having sex I was surpriesed I couldn't get there i have been have sex for years now and I can't figure out what I'm doing wrong I had a patient boyfriend but ... (74 words)

My wife won't have sex with me because of past sexual abuse. How can we heal?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

19 August 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife of 20 years and I have always had a poor sex life except for probably the first sex months that we dated, but she abruptly stopped having sex with me a decade ago. She says it creeps her out and she feels like she's being raped. She has hinted recently that she suff... (243 words)

I'm really horny during my monthly. Does that happen to other women?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

19 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - this might be an odd question, and sort of graphic, but here goes... i've found lately, that anything me and my bf do sexually while i have my monthly (short of having sex) feels REALLY good; i actually tend to be quite a bit more horny during this time, and very sensitive. ... (99 words)

Is he shy? Not interested? Or too busy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

19 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i met a guy through a mutual friend and we seemed to hit it off. the day after we met, and the 2 following, i got text messages from him around noon and we always ended up hanging out. on the last night we were together he was aware I was going away for 2 weeks he told me... (546 words)

How to cure only child syndrome?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

19 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has serious only child syndrome and I dont know how to deal with it. It is starting to really irritate me. He often makes me feel like everything is on his terms, e.g. when we see each other, what we do, what movies we see, what games we play. He isn't really ... (188 words)

I'm told my ex I'm pregnant and now he doesn't want to talk to me anymore

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

19 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex boyfriend and i we're very good friends but now i'm pregnant and it seems he doesn't want to talk to me anymore. It's been like 3 years that i ended my relationship with him and we decide to be friends but he'd say stay in love me (or that's what he said) by then I had ... (122 words)

Could being gay just be a phase?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4852 days ago

19 August 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - First off, I'm just going to say that this might not be the best looking question in terms of spacing. I was wondering if some of you have ever gone through a gay/bi phase? This is a very embarassing thing for me to say, but I'm gay. I'm sure of it, and I'm not proud of what ... (103 words)

My girlfriend always turned me down of sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

19 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I had a girlfriend we've bin together for d past 6 month i love her and she really loves me,she prefer romance to sex bt anytime i ask of sex she turn me down,what shall i do and i want to have sex witg her ... (45 words)

Why is her vagina so loose?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

19 August 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - so the other night me i was engaging in some foreplay with my fiance i got her to orgasm a couple of times, now not ever in our 3 year relationship has she let me finger her because she says that nails scratch her inside and it kills. anyhow this night she let me finger her. i ... (216 words)

I still miss my ex a year later

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4873 days ago

19 August 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I know this sounds really dumb, but it's been bothering me for some time and I can't seem to get over him. Last summer I had my first boyfriend. We spent literally every day together because he was leaving to go to a different country at the end of the summer. I know a summer ... (448 words)

Will life destroy my love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4873 days ago

19 August 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello. So I just got off the phone with my girlfriend. I am 16 and I'm trying to make plans for unvercity since its not really something you should leave till the very last second. Well I told her that I wanted to go to university somewhere close to her, and that she influenced ... (353 words)

What do I do with this desire I have for another woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

19 August 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello im 32 yrs old and married to a real good woman in all aspects i also have a wonderful baby boy that I adore but i meat someone a female 8 yrs younger and never did anything physcial but the conversations and the physical attraction is so amazing i dont have that with my w... (88 words)

I just wanna be friends with the guy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

19 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So there is this guy who I've known for a few years now. He works at the coffee shop I go to almost everyday (hey I like the tea). When I sit outside at the outdoor deck area he usually takes his break and sits and talks with me. We became friends over facebook after some ... (187 words)

I'm not sexually attracted to my fiance...Should I break off this engagement?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

19 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been dating my fiance for four years, i am 20 yrs old and i have been with him since i was 16. We had a very healthy relatonship, for a very long time. on our three yr anniversary we moved into an apartment together for the first time, and things went down hill fro... (298 words)

I feel uncomfortable going to his flat now he has a cat!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

19 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't want to sound mean by writing this, but i dont feel comfortable going to my boyfriends flat now, as he got a new kitten today, and it bit him, scratched him and jumped on him a lot. I get really nervous when animals bite and scratch, as it hurts a lot. It hurt my ... (175 words)

Is there such a thing as fate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4874 days ago

19 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Do you guys believe in fate? I recently fell out with my male best friend, completely cut him off. With good reason. It almost been two weeks since this happened and I've done fine without him so far, until today. I got my a level results today, in the morning, I seen his dad. ... (180 words)

Why did this guy just stop texting me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

19 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Why did he just stop texting me? everything was going great until he stood me up tonight and he never got back in touch with me. He won't even answer his phone he always hangs up why is he acting like this?... (42 words)

I'm separated from my husband and he's asking me for help on a dating website!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4873 days ago

19 August 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - hi, i've been separated for 5 years and only just sorting out a divorce. My ex hubby has bi-polar, which makes him not always see situations as they are and causes him severe depression when he's on a low. He was in a relationship for the past 3 years with a girl who also has... (231 words)

Pill Popper girl friend... or not?

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19 August 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Some people told me that my gf of 1 year is a pill popper. Unfortunately, I don't trust these people and question their input. But, there is some evidence to support them... I know she has a drug dealer contact, but she claims to not use drugs or contact him. Her moods ... (149 words)

What is it about the average guys that makes them get the most stunning girls?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

19 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - We all know of or heard of average, even below average guys consistently getting stunning girls. These guys don't have high status. If arrogance is a turn off, why don't these average/below average guys turn off these stunning girls? If they aren't actually arrogant, as in ... (68 words)

I moved to the city where my ex lives but now I'm still feeling confused

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

19 August 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey all, so here's my story. About a year ago my long distance girlfriend had left me. And less then a week later was in a relationship with another dude. Now she said that she had no feelings for him when she was with me, and I believed her completely. But her actions tell me ... (373 words)

Am I wrong in thinking that my husband should have backed me up when I needed it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

19 August 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a nurse and about 10 months ago I was mildly assulted and bullied at work by another nurse with no witnesses. I wrote up this nurse and turned it in to my HR and to my nursing director. Nothing was ever done I was never supported they just brushed it off. My husband ... (171 words)