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writes:I just found out I am pregnant, the baby wasn't planned but I did have unprotected sex stupidly.I am engaged and in a commited relationship so it's not like I will be alone. My fiance so excited about it. >Im so scared to think thats it now and I can never really be alone with my fiance again or go on holiday together etc. I just need know, is your life over once you have a child? I am so scared
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2011): For me, having a child would mean the end of my life. That is why I don't want kids.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2011): "I just need know, is your life over once you have a child?"
No, but your life changes immensely.
You worry about things you never thought you'd worry about.
You think about things you would never have predicted you would think about.
You become a parent, with all the attendant responsibilities and benefits.
It is hard work, long nights, exhausted days, and if you love your children, protect them, nuture them, you will get back all that you gave, and more.
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (20 August 2011):
 Your life is NOT over, of course, but will be different and probably enriched in many ways.
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reader, bunnyblueeyes +, writes (20 August 2011):
 Your life isn't over once you have a child. You can still do all those things that you want to do!! You have a loving fiance who is happy to be starting a family with you. It may be a little sooner than you planned but you have people to support you. Speak to your partner and tell him your fears. He will reassure more than we ever could!Good luck.
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