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writes:ive been with this guy for 7 months and all we really seem to do is argue :/ .. he always adding girls on Facebook and i get really paranoid as to whether he talks to them.So one day me and my friend made a female on Facebook( i know that's wrong of me but i just wanted to see, to give myself piece of mind) we added him to see what he was really like... turns out he does talk to the girls and flirts with them one hell of a lot .. he offered to go meet her when she asked does he have a girlfriend he said no .. my heart sank (hes going through a lot atm and i feel like ive been there for him 100%) so why would he be so disrespectful?.. i asked him does he talk to girls on Facebook he lied and swore on my life he never does then he changed his mind and told me 2 weeks ago he was talking to 4 girls...but it apparently meant nothing.. he promised he hadn't talked to any girls within the last week ( bearing in mind the day i asked him this was the same day he talked to the fake on fb) all these lies ate up at me and i showed him the convo her and him had he was shocked he couldn't respond for about 15 mins he was like i just wanted attention .. do i not give him enough.. i felt sick he promised me he would never do this again and i want to believe it but i cant :/..... so what im really asking is do i give him the benefit of the doubt and stay with him?.. or do i break it off which i really dnt know how to do ?.. what would you do ask if you want to know more info .. and male give your opinion too :) thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2011): I think you should dump him.
He lied to your face until confronted with truth he could not deny.
He doesn't respect you and you deserve more.
I promise you, you WILL get over him.
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reader, pontikoulina18  +, writes (20 August 2011):
 You live once so where is the point of being with someone u cant trust and treats u like this?break up with him and find someone else who really deserves ur love,care and attention... good luck hun..
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reader, youngluv_f  +, writes (20 August 2011):
Ok now for me I would start to break up with him to see how he responds. Like saying "I know that you are really sorry, but I just don't know if I can forgive you about lying about US" then if he is really sorry then he will start talking. If he is sorry enough to try and stop that the stay with him...but if he says nothing then he isn't worth it and he will probably do it again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2011): I think you should just leave him, he´s really not respecting you, and did you say he swore on your life? why didnt he swear on his? It seems like he´s constantly lieing to you. I think you should leave him its only going to hurt you even more, find someone that respects you and deserves you, you even said you were always there for him so he has no reason to behave that way.
Good luck :)
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reader, auntyR +, writes (20 August 2011):
your only young, so why waste your time with someone you can't trust. Get rid of him and find someone who wants to be with you and not be bothered by other girls.
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