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Archived questions from: 6 August, 2011 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is the age gap really a problem? What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

6 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically me and my best friend are very very close and we spend a lot of time with eachother and eachother's familes and friends. For about a year or so now i have known this guy who lives next door to her, we get on really really well and from day one he has always been very ... (395 words)

I'm wondering if my hubby is cheating! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

6 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married for ten years, have four children together, and have generally been very happy together. But recently, he's been working an awful lot, he's been stressed and whereas before, if something was bothering him, he'd talk about it to me, now he d... (222 words)

I made it clear to him that a threesome will not happen...and he got angry! Advice?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

6 August 2011 (?) age 51-59 - OMG, I can't belive what has just happened, here's the deal... Me and my bf have had a few drinks, but we're not drunk. He made a joke in town about taking this girl home with us. We have a lot of dirty sex and we talk about other people in our sexual fantasies. Anyway, ... (218 words)

Am I kinky or should I relax and stop worrying about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

6 August 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - am i kinky? i am a 46 yrs. old slim attractive widow. in march of this year, i met a wonderful likewise lady three years older than myself for companionship etc. we have become enormously great friends and confide in each other. one weekend last month,we were talking in he... (348 words)

What really turns a guy on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

6 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This question is Coming from a girl who has little experience with men.What really turns on a fella? Like what do most fellas get turned on by or what do they find sexy? ... (33 words)

How do I tell these girls that I don't want to date them without hurting them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

6 August 2011 (?) age 26-29 - I belong to a website for young people to meet other people and date if they want to. I like one particular girl on that website and don't really like any of the others in a dating way. I've been talking to several people including this one girl I like, I haven't been flirting ... (151 words)

Should I text him and give him an out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4886 days ago

6 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i recently went on vacation; before i left i met a guy. it was a blind date of sorts, set up by a friend, and we hit it off... hung out three days in a row before i left. our last night together he hugged me, asked for sure when i'd be back, hugged me again and told me to text ... (504 words)

My wife would rather surf facebook than have sex with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

6 August 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Why do women say they are too tired to have sex, have a headache, etc. when the reality is they just have little to no desire to have sex? I got married quite recently, and my wife has often said she's too tired to have sex and has to go to sleep so she can get up for work ... (291 words)

Long Distance Heartache

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4886 days ago

6 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. I find myself in a very stressful emotional situation. I’m currently living outside of the United States away from Family and Friends, in a country in Africa actually. I have been living here for almost 9 months and I never imagined it would be so emotionally hard to get ... (628 words)

We had crazy sparks and now I haven't heard from him. What's up with that?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

6 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My mom and his aunt tried to set me and the guy up. His aunt asked if he was willing to call me and he agreed. We started off with txt msging and the next day he asked me if he could call me, i agreed. We hit it off pretty well and spoke for an hour without knowing what the ... (282 words)

I cant talk to girls anymore...please help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

6 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Quick question....I broke up with my GF 2 months ago and I'm ready to get back in the game now. The only thing is my confidence was crushed in my last relationship(it took 1/4 of a year to talk myself into breaking up with her). Can someone tell me how I could talk to and ... (119 words)

He slept with me and then he slept with my best friend! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

6 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I was seeing a guy last year for a few months, he always talked to my best friend and she told me how he will always be crazy about me.. Recently we've seen a lot of each other because he's friends with my friends, we talked one day about how we he would just stare at me ... (214 words)

My wife admitted that she cheated with my friend 18 years ago

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

6 August 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife and I have been together for 19 years today, married for 16 of those. We have no children. We have had some ups and downs in the relationship and even separated once 11 years ago because my wife wanted to prove that she could support herself and be independent of m... (969 words)

Very insecure, which causes me to be scared of everything in the relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

6 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have indeed broke up in the past, but now we are together and better than before. In the past my boyfriend broke up with me and that totally shattered me. And possibly my lack of trust for my boyfriend is because I have been hurt in the past and I'm scared o... (238 words)

Onesided sex life

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

6 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay over the last 5 days me and my girl have become sexually active. Now we both were virgins so when have to take it slow when it comes to actually have sex because i end up hurting her which i comepletly understand. The thing that i really dont understand is that over the ... (137 words)

If a guy knows he's a bad person, why doesn't he try to better himself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

6 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - When a man calls himself a s**t , does that mean he thinks he is a horrible person, and that he thinks you are a nice person and he feels bad for treating you badly ?. This is about someone i was seeing. We saw each other for two months, and he stopped contacting me without ... (114 words)

Can I just not find a lively girl to date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

6 August 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - ok so i want to come close to this girl who has entered my life recently.. but i think i am destined to get only those girls who arent lively at all! Perhaps my ex has set such a benchmark that i dont see any girl who is even near to her in everything...but its been 2 years we ... (255 words)

Should I move back home in the hopes that my ex will follow me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

6 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I was wondering if you could help me. Ive asked a few questions in the past on the same topic. Its my Ex. We split up over a year ago now. He left as he has commitment issues, he left me up north in our home, I moved to London to get away from him and start again and ... (914 words)

Does getting turned on by 2 girls porn make me gay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

6 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i have got turned on by watching two girls have sex on t.v. i was watching porn with my hubby. Does getting turned on make me gay?... (27 words)

Am I experiencing side effects of long term birth control useage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

6 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been on birth control for over 2.5 years. I am very prone to low moods, depression and low libido. I don't remember any of this happening in the preceding months of taking the pill. Can these symptoms be a side-effect of pro-longed birth control use? Also, tonight I... (222 words)

My boyfriend's friends bring out the worse in him. I hate them!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

6 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend loves me alot..but i hav a major problem when it comes to his friends...they drink n smoke lyk nythng...wid very hard efforts i hav chnaged my guy..he had almost quit drinking..n m sure abt it coz almost all the tym he used to spend his tym wid me..bt now a ... (140 words)

Does storing porn dvds at home lead to any kind of badluck to me ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

6 August 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - my dad stores lot of porn DVDs in his room but does not watch it frequently .I have a bad feeling that storing porn at home itself will give a bad effect to me and my family. i feel that am facing lot of bad-luck because of this.i many times wont even enter my dads room because ... (171 words)

Why do I feel like this about him?

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6 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do I feel like that about this guy? is this normal? There's this guy that I really like. He says he's been attracted to me since he saw me. We chat most nights. He's so sweet. I miss him when we're not texting or on the phone. I've found myself fantasising about h... (103 words)

I really thought we had something special but now he won't reply to texts or answer my calls

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

6 August 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Please help I am so hurt and confused I really need some positive advice. I met this guy 2 weeks ago, at first I really didn't hold any hope that anything would become of it. We met in a park and went back to his place. At first it was intended as a casual meeting but we t... (1644 words)

Do I need to rehome the dog? How can I better settle my son? I am so worried re this.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

6 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hi everyone i know that this isnt a relationship question but i don.t know what to do with my 2 and a half year old son he has been in his own bedroom for 6 months now. Putting him to bed was no problem i would settle him in read to him give him a kiss say night night and come ... (163 words)

How can we rely solely on my income? Is boyfriend careless or lazy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

6 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost four months and things are going fairly well, but like most relationships, can be improved. In my case, it is about work. When we got together, he was starting a new job which was pretty well paid. However, a few months later, he ... (171 words)

My friend that I love tells me to find a girlfriend but I can't think of anyone but her

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

6 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - There is a girl who is my childhood friend but her family went to another city when i was 11..i used to like her at that time.now after ten years i contacted her.and we do lot of chatting and phone calls now and i love her a lot now and i even told her that but she said that ... (125 words)

Sometimes my boyfriend gets really mean with my children. Should I listen to the voice in my head telling me to end things?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

6 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Aunts, I am a single mother of two loving boys, 12 and 5 years old. I am currently in nursing college. I have a boyfriend and we've been together for five years. We met 6 months after I got my second child. My children adore and loves him, and I think he loves them too... (225 words)

Can a good man just make a mistake? Or once a cheater always a cheater?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4883 days ago

6 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Long story short, my boyfriend of a year cheated on me with a one night stand. We got in a fight, I said really mean hurtful things I didn't mean and told him I never wanna talk to you again! Well the next night, he went out, got really drunk and had sex with a girl he didn't ... (194 words)

I'm engaged, he's married but sometimes the way he looks at me I think he has feelings for me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

6 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am here to get some opinion on where you think I stand in my male friend's eyes. He is married and I am currently engaged. The confusion stems from some actions of his and some words he says. Maybe I over think it, but I would love to have your opinion nonetheless. Here... (382 words)

My boyfriend says my vagina is wide. I've never had kids, so what is he talking about?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

6 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18. I've sex with my bf. But he said my vaginal is wide, he feels its empty when he puts it in. I dont know why my vaginal is wide. He's normal, not too big and not too small. I never have kid or abortion. I dont know why. Who can explain it to me ? And how can I fix it?... (63 words)

Do alot of couples have weddings for their families sake?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4887 days ago

6 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My partner and I are starting to plan our wedding. I've never been to one before and it seems like there's so much to think about. I'd much rather elope, but his family would be devastated if we did. I just want to be married to him without going through so much wedding fuss. ... (409 words)

I'm 28 and she is 18, can we overcome the age gap?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4883 days ago

6 August 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - This is very weird for me to talk about because I know this is not commonly accepted (especially since I would not normally accept this). I am 28, just moved to the states, and I have become involved with an 18 year old. I have never dated someone more than 2 years younger than ... (311 words)

I have a period and then get one 9 days later?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

6 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I got my period at the end of last month and then 9 days later, it shows up again. This is the first time this has happened. I usually always get it at the end of the month. Now I don't know what to expect. I concerned. What do this mean? Can it be that my cycle is changing or ... (61 words)

How can I rekindle our friendship without appearing desperate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4886 days ago

6 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear all, I will be brief with this. I met him in another country about two months ago and separated a week ago. We got the friendship going really well till when we both became lustfull. We did not have sex, but we cuddled, hugged and spent time like couples would normally do. ... (189 words)

Is he playing me or does he want to get to know me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

6 August 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - what does it mean when a guy ask you for a hug and we just met. I just met him already he is asking me for hugs. The first hug friendly and second one when he gave me a goodbye hug he held me closer put his hands around my waist. he likes joking teasing me. He also likes ... (101 words)

For any man having an affair

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

6 August 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a question for any married, or attached men out there who have had an affair- Did any of you have (or are having) a long term affair, and have fallen in love with the "Other woman", but still stay with your wife or girlfriend? If this is something you are going throug... (138 words)

When are men going to STOP being so selfish about porn and START realizing they are destroying the woman that loves them?

This question has 34 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

6 August 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Some women like porn and don't mind if their bf's look at it. This does not apply to those women. This is for the rest of us, the majority. Those of us that HATE PORN and HATE HOW IT MAKES US FEEL ABOUT OURSELVES. Seriously, after all the excuses and self lies ... When... (196 words)

Everything points to success except for the age difference, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

6 August 2011 (F)

I worry about having children because my boyfriend's family have different illnesses

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

6 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been going out with my bf for about 2yrs and 3months now, we live together and all. we arent going to have kids for a while as we are both not ready. im 21 and he is 27. the other day i brought up kids with him..and i said i was abit worried about having kids with him ... (218 words)

Good marriage, but I want more

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4883 days ago

6 August 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, I want to vent and maybe get some perspective from Aunts here. I read the site often. I'm an average guy, been married for almost 15 years and together for about 20 years with my wife. We have many children and most of the time we have a great marriage. People have told... (996 words)