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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: Last night, I had a dream about my ex-girlfriend. But when I woke , I didn’t start missing her as it used to be the case just few months back. She dumped me almost one year ago and she thought I was not financial stable and there was class difference between me and her - with her belonged from upper class and me middle class. It seems, now she’s gone out of my system completely but at the same time I miss the fact that why now I don’t miss her? Even when she appears in my dreams? Because I used to think she was my divine love and to have her totally disappeared from body is kind a strange for me. Don’t you people think that my feelings are very weird or everyone faces the same kind of strange dilemma after being dumped the one I am confronting? You people take on this would be appreciated. Thanks !
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reader, Kyle007 +, writes (21 August 2011):
I don't know if its necessarily NORMAL that you don't miss the woman who dumped you, but I would definitely say it is
OPTIMAL.
You can't worship this relationship any more. Its over and it was a bad one if it ended. Be happy you are over this. It is a mental state that a LOT of people on this site wish that they could achieve.
You are totally fine sir.
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