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writes:So I just got married, and my husband and I are both virgins... I think that its unneccesary to say that neither of us really knows what the hell to do... Lol, I'm asking for any tips you might have on reaching orgasm, increasing his woefully low stamina, and anything else you can think of. Lol, we obviously know the mechanics of it, but other than that, we're pretty clueless...
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reader, Shamandalie  +, writes (10 March 2008):
First of all let me tell you that it is very romantic to share that learning experience with your husband. You will be learning a lot about yourselves and about each other. Take time to explore each other, share your feelings and most important, try to make a spiritual connection as well.
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reader, danalog +, writes (8 March 2008):
 Doublem's got it right on the technical end. I would add some. Exploratory mission #1: (always)Make sure you don't wait till it's time to go to bed on a work night; give yourselves the time you'll surely want. Make sure the room is warm so you don't have to be stuck under the covers.Maybe fruit to share so you don't have to go anywhere; Plus fruit is juicy, sweet, and totally sexy.Talk and giggle and look each other in the eyes a ton. Don't get too close to your thangs too soon; let the tension mount- the longer you wait, the bigger and better it always is. This rule does not apply to the quickie of course.Enjoy starting from the ground up; knowing you're both newbies is a tremendous pressure relief. There's nothing worse than single people having to walk around town trying to prove themselves all the time... you guys have it made!All of this comes -and so will you(!)- in time. It's all relative. Just make sure you're both open and relaxed, honest and attentive. There's no safer place than this.You're already poets and don't yet know it. Good luck, have fun.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (8 March 2008):
 Lot's of long, passionate foreplay - passionate kisses, fondling, rubbing, fingering (usually with two fingers or more), kissing and nibbling breasts, etc. Your husband should do these things for you at least half an hour before even thinking about intercourse. If he adds kissing, licking and sucking your privates, he may be able to help you reach one or more orgasms even prior to intercourse. And also, experiment with various positions.
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