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*ARIEALICE35
writes:HI MY NAME IS Alice and i have been with this man who i divorced, then we got back together, but my question is how do i know if he has bisexual tendancies. he always want's to have sex in the butt, he has no intemecy towards me as a woman. He has a great time woth the guys when he is with them. I even heard him call one of his guy friends babe. So is he turning?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2008): could be that he is not gay, just prefers bottom sex. a bit controlling if that is not satisfying you. so it's really a question if you want to continue to be in a relatioship like that rather than his sexuality.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2008): Be straight with him and ask him outright if he is turning gay. what do you have to lose? You need to know and the best way is to have a good long chat with him and ask him just what is going on. some blokes are this way by nature, so you have to ask yourself if you want to go through life with someone who is always going to be like this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2008): First off, homosexual men do NOT always have anal sex. Some studies even suggest that hetero men engage in it more then gay men. A gay man will have the same objections to anal sex that women have, it hurts and is risky. Linking anal sex to homosexuality would be like linking cunninglus to lesbianism.Hanging around with men and having a good time with them isn't a sign either. A lot of homosexual men actually like to be around women. The babe thing could be nothing more then a nickname. You say he has no intimacy towards you as a woman, what does this mean? Doesn't he touch your breasts or other female parts at all? This again doesn't really mean anything, he could just be a lousy lover.Anyway, if he is BI-sexual he would be attracted to both women and men, the signs wouldn't be that he is NOT attracted to you as a woman, but that he is also attracted to men. Sorry it just sounds like her get an anal fixation, that can be a pain in the butt (^_^) but doesn't have to have any deeper meaning.The no intemacy part to you as a woman might mean something but you are too vague, after all your bottom is part of you as a woman, a woman's posterior looks different.
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