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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: This is a question for the guys to naswer. See when you like a girl and she sends you a text message, how long does it take you to answer? Do you answer straight away or do you leave it a day or so? If you leave it a while does that mean you're less keen?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2008): well it takes me a long time cause i am pretty nervous and i want to make sure everything i say is spot on
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reader, SamuraiRick +, writes (8 March 2008):
I hate the whole text thing. If I get a message and don’t answer it...or never answer it just means I'm busy! I only text if Im bored or there’s an emergency. I got better things to do with my time than to stand there and type into my cell phone I can easily leave in your voice mail. That's my perspective. You want me to say it...Ok I'll say it: TEXTING SUCKS! If you want to talk to me call me!
SO I bet that's what your guy is saying to himself when he gets a message from you. Don't take it offensively and make a big issue out of it but some people like me HATE texting!
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reader, Paladin +, writes (8 March 2008):
It all depends on the relationship. I think text messages are great and I answer mine as quickly as I can especially if I like the sender. Waiting days to respond makes no sense to me at all. Remember, sometimes text messages don't come through right away but if this is happening all the time I would say he isn't as fond of you as you of him.
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reader, asian tealeaf +, writes (8 March 2008):
u need to understand, people dont sit idle all day and live by their text messages. lighten up a little and realize she could be working, on a bus, driving, on the throne, sleeping, etc and did not answer u right away. anyhow its not what id call a real way of communication. so either u talk more via actual phone or meet more for dates where u can actually converse. but texts are jusy a quickie outlet to talk. so yes, stop looking at ur phone so much and get the action going with an actual date or phonecall that does not include textmesages. good luck
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