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writes:Well I'm a sixteen year old girl and I was dating this boy named *james* for about a month in a half...Well the first month of the realtionship was going fine..the only problem is that we had little discusions like every day because of his bestfriend..she would always do things like flirt with him in front of my face and bite him...it was obvious that she liked him but james would tell me not to worry because she saw her like a sister and she was one of the only girl that are friends that has...well two week before our relationship ended he started acting like a real asshole and he wasn't treating me the same and we almost broke up but I tried to save the relationship..but then later on I start realizing he's not acting all the same until one day I ask him who he thinks looks better me or his bestfriend and he didn't want to answer so I told him that he thought his bestfriend looked better and he was liek "well you wanted the honest answer"... so then I on to ask him why is even going out with me and he said cause I like you..and something else..he didn't want to tell me until he finally did and it was because he didn't want to hurt my feelings so I just ended the realtionship there....then five days later I text him asking him how life is and he tells me it's great cause he's about to go out with the bestfriend. The real reason he had kept the relationship going was because he wanted me to break up with him because he didn't want to look like the bad guy...well now we fastforward to yesterday and I find out that his bestfriend told him the realtionship wasn't gonna work out.. and so now he's trying to get my attention but not actually talking to me... I'm just ignoring him.... but I'm actually thinking of giving him a second chance... should I?..I mean I still have feelings for him...but I don't know what to do.. it's been 8 days since the break up
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you...well last night he pretty much contacted me and it was a very awkward experience
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2008): don't give him that second chance because if you do he will say you like him i mean he took you for a fool no matter how strong the feelings is please don't go back if he luved you he wouldn't prefer his best friend now that the best friend doesn't want him he is now seeing you as an alternative you can imagine you are too young for your heart to be toured with all the same i wish you the best
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2008): i don't think you should because if he did love you he would have never done what he has done.
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