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I appear to be the one making all the sacrifices, is this relation worth it?

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Question - (8 March 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 10 March 2008)
A female Nigeria age 41-50, *arbbey3000 writes:

I met this 37 years old guy who is single,i am a lady of 26 years and single too,the problem is that the guy appears to be too busy with his work so leaving us little or no time to spend together.The guy is also broke,while i have a good job and i do most of the calling,he says he loves me and wants to have kids with me but he can't afford marriage yet.Is this a normal relationship because i appear to be the one making all the sacrifices

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A female reader, Harbbey3000 Nigeria +, writes (10 March 2008):

Harbbey3000 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thanx oldersister,i just need him 2 pay more attention,how do i acheive this?

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A female reader, Harbbey3000 Nigeria +, writes (9 March 2008):

Harbbey3000 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

I need answers pls help me

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A female reader, Harbbey3000 Nigeria +, writes (9 March 2008):

Harbbey3000 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

well am not even sure he loves me,wat are the signs to watch out for in a man who luvs his girl.i need to know

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A male reader, Paladin United States +, writes (8 March 2008):

Paladin agony auntIf he is 37 and broke I can understand why he might be working so hard. Its not easy to get ahead in this world and the pressure sometimes is brutal. However, if your the one having to call all the time that is an issue. And if he is working so many hours that he has no time for you I have a hard time understanding why he is so broke. It almost soulds like there may be someone else in his life. The fact is you two are in the courtship phase of the relationship, if it isn't working now I doubt it ever will.

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