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writes: Hi there,Really need some help. It was finished with me and my boyfriend for two weeks. We met for lunch today and decided that we missed each other and wanted to give it another go.One problem though i asked him did he want to meet up tonight and he said he was going to his cousins childs christening night. I am absolutely going mad because he isnt even that close with his cousin. He didnt even know she was pregnant til i told him!!!Im gutted that he doesnt want to spend the night making up with me. If he missed me that much then why am i bottom of his priority list. I said all this to him and he said i scrutinise things way too much...is he right?? Do i??Then he said do i want to come but it might be a bit weird (because his parents knew we were finished). So he invited me but then disinvited me all in the one sentence. I just feel left behind by him. Because he'll go out tonight then ill only have tomorrow night with him. I never saw him that much during the week because of work and my college studies. Just can't stop crying now...i missed him so bad i just wanted some time thats all.What do ye all think??? Really need some opinions...am i being over the top. What will i say to him now to make him understand????
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reader, Paladin  +, writes (8 March 2008):
 His going to the cristening is the right thing to do. However, I fail to see any reason why you could not have gone also. Unless of course there was more to the break up than you have shared. Regarding his parents I find it hard to believe they would have been uncomfortable with your being there. I suspect there would have been many people there and you might not have even been noticed. As far as putting pressure on him to see you, I would stop that. Nobody likes to be pressured or forced to make decisions against their family. If he loves you he will come to you and if he doesn't then make your next decision. One thing for sure is that you can't force a relationship.
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