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30-35,
*ara Petra123
writes:There's this guy who I've liked and I think he's liked me aswell (because of certain signals) for about a year now. We are both shy. I asked him out just before some important exams and he said he didn’t know and then 2 days later he said not now but maybe after them. Basically I ignored him and my friends said that he showed signs of liking me again like being where I was all the time and looking and stuff. Some things his friends have done:1. One day I was walking outta school and his friends were like saying his name and then were like shouting to me ‘come back’ and telling him ‘she’s going’. I looked back and I just saw him looking in my direction.Then some days he would look and others not and then one day his friend said ike that I was 'stalking' him and stuff (which I obviously wasn't but maybe they just don’t like me who knows?? )2. The other day I walked past him and his friends……I thaught they said ‘ Isn’t that the girl that fancies ‘ and then his name but my friend said that they said ‘Isn’t that the girl you like ‘ and then his name and then they were saying like ‘are you single?) and they like pushed him and stuff but because.I think his friend threw a sweet towards my table but it didn't hit me.Sometimes I don’t see him looking : (I ‘’ignore’’ him most of the time. (I always ask my friends to keep a look out though )We're 16 and 17 : )He’s like in the ‚popular’ group and I’m not.....
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reader, Alexsavisertavis  +, writes (9 March 2008):
Ok I am just going to give it to you straight. I you really like him then you shouldnt care if he is popular, you would just go and approch him. and the same applys to the guy you like, he shouldnt care if you are not popular. So my advice to you is to just talk to him and most likly he will start liking you alot more
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reader, starfairy +, writes (9 March 2008):
 The problem with being at school is that friends get involved and it's never a relationship really with just the 2 of you. Your friends really put pressure on - peer pressure is a bitch! Plus, the whole different groups thing, status means alot when you're at school.
It all depends, if he does like you, if he is string enough to go out with a girl not in the popular group. Can he stand up to the teasing he'll get?
There's only one way really to move this forward, ask him out. Make it clear this is the final time you are going to be asking him out, no more fobbing you off with excuses or putting you off to a later date. If he says yes, Great! If he says no, you know where you stand and can move on...
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