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writes:Okay... this is just kind of a poll for anyone and everyone. It may be a little odd but it's something I've always been interesting in hearing about...What do YOU think the meaning of love is? How do you define being "in love"? And what are feelings and emotions experienced when you know someone is the "one"...Please make answers as long and as in depth, or as short, simple and to the point as you want... I am just curious as to all of the different opinions out there... as well as the differneces in guys and girls. Just say whatever comes to mind. Thanks so much. Reply to this Question
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (8 March 2008):
 To love a person, first and foremost you must KNOW them personally. Lots of teenagers say they "love" a celebrity or are "in love" with them but of course this can't be, they love the idea of who they are but if they've never met them then it's just a crush or infatuation.
Real love on the other hand is very different. If you truly love someone then you respect them for who they are, warts and all. You want to look after them and protect them, you look out for them and put them first. You feel happy and content in their company and enjoy being together. Above all you can be yourself when you're with them. You never try to be anything more or someone different because you don't need to. You don't have to impress them to win them over and you never have to play games to make them like you. There is trust and understanding on both sides and you feel safe and secure within yourself. You would never undermine them, they are not someone in whose company you feel threatened or small. They are someone with whom you can share your innermost thoughts and worries, a person with whom you should be able to share anything, they are your friend and your confidante and you can be honest with them at all times, you can tell them anything because they love you as you are.
He/she may be someone who is the direct opposite of you. On the surface you may seem like chalk and cheese. Whilst you may be loud and forceful they may be quiet and thoughtful. You may come from different backgrounds, different countries or be twenty years apart but this doesn't matter. There is an unspoken language between you, the spiritual connection between you both is so deep that you seem to be able to communicate without even speaking to each other. You are happy to lie in silence together. You feel sometimes that there is no need to talk because you feel that you know what they are thinking anyway. You feel so close to them that sometimes you think you could almost read their mind. You know when they are worried, in pain, or sad just by looking at them. It is as though there exists some kind of telepathy between you.
Real love stands the test of time, you laugh together, cry together and even have your differences but this doesn't matter, you love that person AND their failings. You come together in a crisis and work through things together and this just brings you closer. You take their feelings into consideration in all that you do. They are the most important person in your life!
~Eve~
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2008): Hi Hunny
Love is comfortable and not walking on egg shells, Love is warming and unconditional, Its having a bestfriend who you can talk to about anything. Its laughter and fun and being just one. Its waiting around a corner when you least expect to find it and its there when you need it when your not looking to seek it. Its going to bed with your head on his shoulder and just falling to sleep to be tickled all over, Its presious its fun and it a million to one and Its taken me years to find my true man...I hope that helps babes that was the fastest ive ever typed my bath is overflowing WHOOOOPS! TAKE CARE WITH LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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