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writes:I was just wondering: How often do single guys "get lucky"? I know it sounds silly, but I haven't had anything physical with a girl for a VERY long time now, so it's got me wondering how often your average single guy gets laid. Also, how might your average guy try and make things happen?Sorry if my questions reflect badly on myself, but if you could help, I'd be thankful. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionExcuse me, but I didn't ask you to judge me. And what right do you have to do that anyway? You know nothing about me. I notice you have jumped to the conclusion that I DON'T have a girlfriend, which is false. I have been in a relationship for a month now, and this question has been asked purely out of curiosity.
And another thing, I even apologized in case this question reflected badly on me, which is something I didn't have to do, and you have shown no appreciation for the sentiment. You might remember this the next time you come rushing in to simply give your damned opinion about somebody... Or maybe next time you just shouldn't bother.
Sincere apologies to those who made an effort to answer this question, and much gratitude to all of you. As one of you mentioned, I think the first answer I received was the best. Quite informative! That takes nothing away from the other two answers, which I'm thankful for.
I just want to make it clear that this question was not sent out for me to benefit from it. I'm just curious how some guys are capable of doing something like that. Forgive me if this isn't the sort of question aunts on this site are used to receiving. I'm not a regular user of this website.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2008): You obviously don't respect women very much. Why not ask a girl out on a date, develop a relationship, and THEN have sex? If you've waited so long why can't you wait a little longer for someone you're actually going to care about? The sex will be SO much better. Sure, you can get a girl to sleep with you, but she's not going to respect you, especially if you've lead her on. But then you don't care do you? Yeah.... shallow, pathetic and unfulfilling, that'll be GREAT mate.
Get some integrity.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2008): Why not just get a girlfriend so you can have regular sex? Most women don't just want to screw a guy as a one night stand. So, that's my advice. As for the "top percent" of guys that regularly can get laid, the only reason they are getting laid is because they know how to sweet talk a girl into thinking that they want more than sex from her, even when they don't. What woman is going to want to have sex with an ugly, or avergage looking guy when he makes her feel as though that is his main goal, to just get her in the sack? Not many.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2008): Bravo for anon. He's got it spot on. The only way to out do the top percent is by grovelling i'm afraid. Nothing is demanded of these top percent (alphas) but you will be asked to provide more, and they will remain a threat during your relationship should you be lucky enough to get one.
Good luck Brother
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2008): The top percentage of guys can easily get laid about 5 times a week if they want to. The vast majority of all other men out there struggle hard for sexual encounters almost every time.
You should also understand that all women mostly pursue the small number of guys in the first category, especially when they're young. So when talking to women about this issue, you'll never get it through their heads that any males ever have any problem getting laid at all. Females themselves never have a problem getting laid, and (the only men that really "count" to them) don't have any problem getting laid either.
So if you're a medium or less attractive man, you get the least sex of anyone alive. And the only ones who even understand your situation are other guys in your position.
You're lucky if every girl you date hasn't already had 3 times as much sex as you with guys 3 times higher in attractiveness than you (and her) already. And if you say anything about it to your GFs, they'll just get annoyed and act like you've got not right to have any issue with it. They'll say "Well, you've been single too! Why didn't you just go get laid with a bunch of hot sluts back then if you feel like you wanted that?" You'll never get it through a female's head that getting laid is not that easy for normal guys.
It really sucks, doesn't it?
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