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writes:A significent other that I love has moved away. I love him dearly and miss him more and more everyday. A long distance relationship will not work and the move was for their own good. Since the depart I've been depressed and crying everyday. I cannot eat or sleep or even keep a positive attitude anymore.
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reader, brooke5426  +, writes (27 January 2008):
 God. I feel sick for you. I've been there and I literally would not wish it on my worst enemy. I know exactly how torturous and horrific it is and I know this is hard for you to believe right now but honestly, it will get better. Its a bereavement and you need to hit rock bottom so you can build it up again.
Try to keep busy everyday (i know how hard that is but it really will help you) Sitting around doing nothing but thinking about himreally is the absolute worst thing you can do. Try to find something to look forward to - book a vacation, apply for a new job, anything at all that will get you looking forward and not back. And get your hair/nails done and go shopping. It sounds superficial but honestly it really will amaze you how much better you feel when you know you look good. When I was going through what you are going through I was dressed up to the nines every day, I was quite the sight doing the vaccuuming in 5inch heels and skin tight jeans but it really does help :-)
you'll be alright and in a few months you'll have moved on and be over him. You dont believe me but i promise you will.
take care
Brooke
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reader, Moviefan  +, writes (26 January 2008):
 I know how this feels it gets harder and harder then eventually it reaches a point where you just start to be able to think positive again and you start to steadily heal and want to find someone else. And you do what i do, stop eating, dont do that if need be force at least a little food down so you dont get sick from not eating.It may seem like the world has stoped turning becuase of this and you will never find someone you love again, but you will. It may not be in a month, or a year but you will someday find someone you love like you loved him.I had to deal with this myself lately. So i know how you feel by all means. Just dont do anything stupid u will regret because of how you feel. And dont go rushing into a relationship to try to heal, u will regret it.If you need someone to talk to about all this or if you have any other questions feel free to message me.Good LuckGood Luck.
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