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writes:I am looking for some opinions on my situation. I am 18 and work part time at a store with a guy who is 19, turning 20. Ive been working with him for about 8 months now. I really like him a lot, hes such a happy and positive person to be around, hes funny and really nice and caring. I'm not sure if he feels the same way though.He treats me differently to all the other girls at our work. He is fairly protective of me. For example, if another guy shows interest in me or if i go on a date with another guy, he will say things like I am too good for him and if he knows the guy, he will give him 'a good talking to' type of thing. He is always saying how cute and innocent I am...I duno if the innocent comment is suppose to be a compliment or not. Hes always saying how I am so perfect and any boys that Im interested in will just mess me up so I should stay away from them. So my question is, do you think, based on what ive told you, that he likes me? If so, why do you think he hasnt told me yet? Hes a fairly outgoing person, but i duno i guess he could be more shy when it comes to girls.Thanks for any replies :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice guys...but as of today he has a gf :( so i guess ill just have to move on from him.
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reader, dearkelja  +, writes (27 January 2008):
 I also think he likes you. You have probably made him a bit shy about asking you out since you are dating other guys openly and he likely thinks if you like him, you'd be saving yourself for him.
I agree with the other post. Try flirting with him a bit and see if he changes the way he responds to you. Going forward, try not to talk about other men around him. That for sure is holding him back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2008): He totally likes you but maybe he thinks you are too good for him. Listen to what he says, he is a boy and he is telling you to stay away from boys? If I were you I'd flirt a little and say 'and that includes you too?' to see what he says. That way you'll know what he thinks about you two.
Good Luck!
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