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What is rape

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Question - (26 January 2008) 7 Answers - (Newest, 25 October 2011)
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i'm only 13 years old and I posted a question about a boy in my class rubbing against me while i was pinned against my locker. do you think he was trying to rape me?

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A female reader, lovesick111 United States +, writes (25 October 2011):

lovesick111 agony auntNo

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A male reader, rcn United States +, writes (26 January 2008):

rcn agony auntHe definately sexually assaulted you. Rape is the full act of sex without concent, also known as first degree sexual assault. This would be s second degree. Third degree is like telling sexual jokes that offends someone. Comments that are inappropriate and makes the other person feel uncomfortable, etc.

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A male reader, Moviefan United States +, writes (26 January 2008):

Moviefan agony auntHe didnt rape u or try to rape you, he sexually harrased you. Theres a major diffrence. Rape is the act of forcefull pinetration against ones will. Meaning he forced you to have sex when you didnt want to. And Sexual harrasment is unwanted physical contact like groping or grabing your butt or something that you dont want done to you.

So just tell a teacher, parent, or counsler that he did that and just avoid him from there, he will probably get kicked out of school for a week or so. I remember when someone did that sort of thing on my bus and got kicked out.

If you want someone to talk to or you didnt understand something i said feel free to personal message me.

Good luck!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2008):

dear person i think you should tell your teacher about this i think he is jut going throw a stage were he wants sex.

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A female reader, birdynumnums Canada +, writes (26 January 2008):

birdynumnums agony auntWhat he did was really bizarre and inappropriate. It wasn't rape, but it was assault of a sexual nature. What concerns me the most is that he would do this spontaneously, without any permission from you.

Please don't put yourself in any position that would leave you alone with him. Don't go to party's where he could get you isolated, or accept a ride with him. He sounds too aggressive and I think you should stay away from him.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2008):

He assaulted you. You should report this. He's a potential danger to you and to other people.

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A female reader, Variety United Kingdom +, writes (26 January 2008):

Variety agony auntNot rape. That would be the wrong word. Rape is when you force someone into having sex against their will.

However, he did sexually harrass you/sexually violate you. It is different to rape per se but just as inappropriate and potentially damaging to the victim. I doubt he meant it as such but I do not think he should get away with it.

Please feel free to message me if you need more information/don't understand anything I have written. x

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