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writes:I am having a hard time trying to make this long distance relashionship work. We got together in june and she broke up with me in september. we text each other on and off till we got back togerther in novermber. Anyway over christmas and newyear we didnt speak very much she was away visiting family and in the start of january a desided a could not take it any more we hardly text or talked to each other and a hadnt seen her since the begining of december. so i ended it but she got realy upset and a was realy up set to. so a beged her to take me back. we always talked of moving in together and gerting married and having kids which is what a want to do with her a love her to death and want to be with her so bad. we were talking less and less because she had no credit left on her phone but even when she top -up a got maybe 10 text if a was lucky and it was always me phoning her. we made plans for me to go down and see her but she backed out at the last mineut saying she had to go with her mum to visit her aunt. A just couldnt do it any longer so a finished it again. I just cant handle not seeing her and having little contact. a know she isint cheating and she does want to see me and talk to me when she can but it just isnt a relashionship is it? so a asked her to take me back again but shes been ignoring me. What should a do? do a stick at it till we can be together properly or move on? thanks!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2008): For a start its very difficult to maintain a long distance relationship especially if the only source of communication is via texting. Test and emails are okay but alot of what is said can be minconstrued and its also not the same as acutally talking to that person. Can't either of you afford to buy a long distance phone card? Can't you both afford between the two of you to organise a regular visit so that your at least seeing one another. If not then I'm afraid its doomed over a period of time because theres only so much one person can take of testing alone. Its not enough. If you cant then I'm afraid you have to move on and cut your loses, time heals.
Take care and good luck
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