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writes: What is the best way to handle pain? How can yu deal,with more than one serious painful subject ,if your life seems to go that way?What should You say to yourself if all doors seem to close and you feel so alone with your pain. I feel ,i want to escape, not die, just escape. Yet I know ,there is no good escape plan in place? Please give some direction to out from here. Its very dysfunctional,and out of control in this moment. Actually years ago.. I need help, I'm not depressed, I got real problems...
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reader, rcn  +, writes (27 January 2008):
 If you could give a description of the problems you're facing, it will make it much easier. Pain takes a few different forms, knowing what's causing it will give information to best point you in the right direction.
Dealing with trauma, childhood pain is dealt with differently than adult pain. Personal experience is dealt with differently than viewed, depending on the circumstances.
Thank you.
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reader, Serinity +, writes (26 January 2008):
 Life is not always easy and that's a major reason why it is so precious. Many of life's best rewards are possible only because you must work your way through the difficult challenges that come your way and appreciate them. A life of total ease and complete lack of challenge would be unbearably tedious.
When the next challenge comes your way, when the next obstacle blocks your progress, find it in yourself to be thankful. For the difficulties provide you with truly magnificent opportunities to create value, to find meaning and fulfillment in living.
The challenges enable you to give of yourself and to make a real difference. And that's something you desire at the deepest level.
Life is not always easy. And because of that, you have the opportunity to make it truly great.
I hope this helps. I'm not sure what kind of problems your having as you did not specify so I can't give advice based on a particular problem or situation only a generalized one. If you'd like to talk in more detail, please feel free to mail me. God bless you.
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