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writes:I am 41 and going through a divorce after 25 yrs of marraige and im scared as heck and dont really know what life has in store for me and my daughter ...The Divorce is just really starting but he ask me in April I thought there was Hope But have Found there is NONE . I dont know what to do or how to act at this point and time in my life. HELP!!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, dearkelja  +, writes (27 January 2008):
 I too went through a divorce and lived. I will not lie to you, there will be tough times. Make a list of your concerns and then work through them, like a project. Writing down your fears and confronting them with answers will help you not feel so overwhelmed.
On the list be sure to include things like, financial issues, housing, child visitation, working, etc. What do you want from him and from the divorce, support and property wise. Make sure you have a plan for how to support your daughter.
Good luck to you. Remember we are all here to help you through this so if you have a specific concern, let us know.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2008): I know how scared and insecure you must be feeling at the moment, its a horrible situation your in but to try and help you get through this you have to think about all the people in the world that have been divorced and pulled through it. Me included. I hope you can part on friendly terms and I do so hope you have a job because that will give you some security. Friend and family are good during times like these as they give you the support you will most definetely need. All I can say is time heals, its going to be touch but if you have any faith at all then I suggest you use it, it will help.
Take care and god bless
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