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writes:Hey i am a 19 years old and i am a virgin. i have had chances to have sex a couple of times but i chickened out. i know i am ready for sex but i am afriad of it, i am afraid of getting her pregnant or catching something, is it wierd for a guy to be afraid of sex even though he wants to do it, or am i just overthinking it?Also i was wondering if their is anyway to find out if a girl has a boyfriend without coming out and directly asking her for fear of being too forward? see my last girlfriend was over a year ago and that was not a serious relationship, i have never had one and i really want a girl to love and to love me back. so what i guess i am asking is, is there a way to get a girl to notice you and what are the signs that she is interested in you? Thanks in advance.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2008): Hi Hunny,
There is nothing wrong with being afraid love, Your being sensible, Were the sex is concerned you just have to make sure of protection and that when you do find a g/f that she is taking precautions as well. How you no if a woman is intersested well thats a hard one and im a woman, They generally look alot in your direction well my mate does when she likes someone, I dont no love it just kinda happens, You will no when it does im sure TAKE CARE OF YOU HUNNY LOVE MANDY xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (26 January 2008):
 There is nothing "weird" about being afraid.
There is certainly always a chance to impregnate a woman whom you would not want to marry and properly become a husband and daddy, but there are ways to greatly reduce the likelihood.
Timing of ovulation, condoms, the pill, the after pill and various form of sex such as oral.
As for knowing "how to get a girl to like you," well, that is the question of the ages, my friend. I've been pondering that one for about 50 years.
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