A
male
age
,
*ildman
writes: I have a strip club, porn addiction. Is it totally wrong or can it be worked into a marriage successfully? My wife has been very negative towards any real love for a long time. I have been married for 30 years, but I am very interested in sex and she is not. It's a catch 22 situation.
View related questions:
porn Reply to this Question Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, wildman +, writes (28 January 2008):
wildman is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the inputs ,peoriaman and baby duck. I am trying to work things out now, but have a bad habit of spending 100's of dollars on stripper girls and really find it hard to stop entirely. I know it is false but I feel like living a little on the crazy side, keeps me feeling younger. I am going to make a strong effort to change and pay more attention to my wife. I was hoping when the kids all moved out we could have a wild time but she blames me for past times I have told a white lie about going out to a club. I have told her nothing really happens, but I am always told again and again of the past and how much money I have wasted. It seems like no way out especially when my career has not been moving in a good direction lately either. I just go to have 2 hours of escape from reality.
|