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We were going to stay mates after splitting but she doesn't seem interested. Should I let it go?

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Question - (26 January 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 27 January 2008)
A male United States age 30-35, *appySmiles writes:

Dear cupid,

To begin with, I had dated this girl during summer and the fallin year. She goes to a different school than me.[private].Well when we broke up, we promise that we contact with one another.But suddenly weeks later, we both didnt call each other or bare to see each other.I think she kinda ignores me when I see her,or try talk to her. we broke up because we wanted to get good grades/school. I still want to be her friend and dont know what to do...

I feel light-headed everytime I think in the past.

I really want to show her how much I feel about her.

But she jus pushes me aside.

Should I just wait for her or just move on.

I truly love this girl.But hardly see or talk to her.. I tried to do other things,such as, sports/ to stop thinking about her.

p.s WE both 14 year old =]

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (27 January 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntGive her a break. Time will heal any hurts and she may see you from a different perspective.People change all the time. Maybe you may also change and broaden your outlook.

Right now , there is no point in seeing or talking to her until she feels the time is ripe again to meet.

Some day your path may cross again...

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A female reader, birdynumnums Canada +, writes (26 January 2008):

birdynumnums agony auntYou haven't moved on if you are still thinking about her. The point of remaining friends only works if you have moved on. This is a catch-22. If you haven't learned this yet in school, you will probably learn it this year! It's probably for the best that you just go cold turkey and let her go. There is another lucky girl out there waiting to meet you!

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