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writes: how could i make the one who i love know that my love is true ? because she feels that i am a fake lover Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, forgonepath +, writes (7 May 2007):
If she thinks you're "fake," then doing something generic will not help much. Find out WHY she thinks you're fake and specifically attack that issue. In my experience, the issue of someones partner perceiving them as fake comes into play where there is a discrepancy between what one says and what one does. Are you following through with your promises? Are you telling her you love spending time with her but are with your friends most of the time? Think it through, synchronize your words and actions and hopefully she'll stop perceiving you as fake.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2007): Why is she saying your a fake?are you a jekll an hyde kinda guy,if you are try to combat this as to her its like being on an emotional rollercoaster,all couples have ups an downs but you have to put pride away and ensure your love,respect and loyalty to your g/f are no 1 priority,no room for 2nd best,so show her that the smallest of things are just as important as the big ones.good luck
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reader, AskEve +, writes (7 May 2007):
Put yourself out for her, spend time with her and most of all LISTEN to her when she has something on her mind and wants to talk. Women love to talk so if she is quiet then ask her if there is anything wrong. Let her see you are interested and want to help.
Here is a website that might also give you some hints on ways to let her know you love her.
http://www.enter.net/~jtmaru/125ways/101-125.html
Good luck!
Eve
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