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writes:Well I am 15 years old and for a couple of months I was talking to this guy who is 17 years old.Well me and him would talk daily for hours. That changed after some time. Then for a couple of weeks he would just call randomly like at 2 in the morning. Well about a month ago he was on msn messenger and he was talking to my best friend and then he got her number so they began talking as friends. After that he would still call me randomly. A couple of days ago he erased me off his myspace the reason I dont know. Last week my best friend and my friend found him driving around so they stopped and talked. So now the guy has both of their numbers and calls them but doesnt call me ever I mean he even erased me off his myspace. Yesterday he was working as a security guard and I felt like asking him why he erased me and everything but I was too scared. Please give me advice on what I should do..thankyou
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2007): Thank you all for your advice.Well I just received a phone call from him and found out why he erased me.Well am gonna call him tomorrow and see what else happens.
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (6 May 2007):
 The bottom line is, someone better has come along (in his eyes). You never know he may be talking to girls that will cam for him or boost his ego more than you were doing. Don't worry about it, he's shallow and doesn't deserve your friendship. If it really bothers you, why don't you write him an email saying "hi". Keep it light and say to him you noticed he'd deleted you and ask if there was a specific reason. THAT should get the ball rolling again and he'll maybe explain why. Don't run after him though and make a nuisance of yourself. If he doesn't reply then take it that he has moved on and in that case YOU should too.
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reader, sleepyhollow  +, writes (6 May 2007):
Don't stress over it. It'll hurt for a while, and you'll probably watch your phone and click on his myspace profile to see what he's up to, but this behavior will stop eventually.
I recommend finding something to keep you busy. A club at school, or just doing your homework extra well will help you deal. Trust me on this one, it probably isn't something you said or did. It isn't something someone else may have told him about you. Paranoia is normal, but usually unjustified. Don't start looking cross eyed at people and wondering what's going on. Probably nothing really going on, except that something in his life has changed and he's decided to make a break with you. Sure, he shouldn't have done it in such a callous manner, but it isn't the end of the world and it wasn't your fault. Make a clean break of it yourself, and resist the urge to call him, talk to him, or etc. If you see him in public, smile but don't go over to talk.
The ball is in his court. If he wants to be your friend, he can very well come over to you and apologize for being a jerk. After that, you can decide whether or not to give him another chance to earn your trust.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2007): This guy sounds like an idiot. Seriously. I think the best thing to do in this situation is to try and move on and forget about him.
It may be hard, but guys like that arn't really worth your time. I'm sure there's other guys who will actually appreciate your attention.
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