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writes:My parents are starting to go through a divorce at the moment, they're fighting a lot and it kind of upsets me sometimes. But recently I've been wondering, are all marriages bad? Are there people out there in this day and age, where divorce is so common, that actually stay together? If I go into a relationship, will it be like that too? Thank you in advancedSkye
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (7 May 2007):
 Not all marriages are bad... some people are luckier than others. My parent shave been together for twenty years and theyy're very happy together. They both make efforts in the relationship and know that they love each other, it's just a matter of making it work.
Marriage is tricky. Relationships take HARD WORK. Some people choose to quit because it gets too difficult. Some people are more compatible and don't have as many problems. I'm so sorry about your parents... trust me when I say that they probably don't want to be fighting either.
When you start going into relationships of your own, remember to take your time when choosing who to marry. Marriage shouldn't be an impulse decision, you should really think before you jump into it. Fights happen, they are unavoidable, but effort needs to be made on both ends.
Sometimes it's difficult, sweetness. But love is (and should be) worth it.
xxIndia
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reader, Mystic Moo +, writes (6 May 2007):
 Not all marriages are bad. My parents have been together for nearly 26 years and never have big arguements. I understand that now people tend to argue a lot more but doesn't mean you shouldn't have a relationship yourself. Everything happens for a reason.
I'm sorry to hear about you parents.
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reader, in my opinion +, writes (6 May 2007):
 no not all marriages are bad. my parents are still goin strong after 26 years. its hard work but the rewards are there if u keep at it.
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