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writes:Alright so I'm 17 and I have a HUGE crush on my teacher at school...he was my bio teacher when i was a sophomore, and now I'm a senior. He always talks to me still and he makes it obvious that he goes out of his way to do it. When we walk down the halls my friends notice him totally checking me out. Soph year he always sat me in the desk in the front and always gave me hugs...i know it's weird but i loved it...he a total babe and he's so nice. He even tells me that i look beautiful somedays...and when im in the library i;ll look up and he'll be smiling at me. I have a huge thing for him and it seems like he has something for me...he's 29 and i know he's not married...and his age doesn't bother me...would it be so bad if i were to start something up with him after i graduated? What should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionalright...so you guys are going to be mad...but this is what happened. i was staying late for play practice and he was walking down the hall so of course we started to talk. one thing led to another and we ended up going all the way...it's not awkward at school, but i think he wants more from me. i want to be with him too...what should i do?!?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2007): i love reading about things like this, as im in the same sort of situation, im 17 my bf is 34, he was my teacher, but not anymore, hasnt been my teacher for 3 yrs an doesnt actually teach full stop!
BUT wait until ur 18, i still have to!
Hope it works out for u!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2007): I was 16 yrs old when i met my brothers guitar teacher, 3 years later were still going steady in a solid relationship and im so hapy i made the effort to communicate with him. If you know for sure that this man likes you and not just as a good pupil then you should try communicating with him via email, texts etc. But i would hoenstly say your best bet is to wait until youve graduated before you start anything, it will help you both in the long run, its never good when a teacher has a relationship with a pupil, so id definatly advice you to wait. But while you do wait you can get to know more about him, talk to him when your in the library. I hope things work out for you, good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2007): CD did you only read half the question. He is not married!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2007): cd206, he is NOT married! if you are going to give advce please read the question properly.
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reader, cd206  +, writes (18 February 2007):
 There would be a lot wrong with starting something after you're graduated. If he were single it would be something else entirely but he's married! How do you think you'd feel if one day you were married to him and he was sleeping with one of his ex students? It's fine to have a crush, we can't help how we feel, but we have to know when it can't go any further.
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reader, kenny +, writes (18 February 2007):
 I think as you said, your best bet would be that if you were thinking of starting something up with this guy it would be better to wait untill you have graduated. Don't think about it while he is still your teacher as he could get into trouble for dating pupils.
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