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*enie53uk
writes:hi all i recently wrote asking what to do about how i want more from my friend with benifits , so anyway i told him how i want more , and he said how he dont see me just as a shag and wants more too , he even asked me if we should be more like boyfriend and girlfiend now this was last weekend and his last text was im going to bed il text you soon , and he hasnt text back should i assume thats his way of ending it with me or is he waiting for me to text him
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reader, malica  +, writes (19 February 2007):
ok u should call him to see what going on. whenu ask u u should be like girl firend an d boyfirend did u rely? u should not text the only thing u should do is call him to let him knonw how u feel and what going on
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2007): I just hate the text system. So many things can get mis-construed. Blokes get side-tracked and then they actually forget, mine is just as bad!! Just don't read too much into it.
Take care
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reader, dragonette  +, writes (19 February 2007):
 He asked you what were your thoughts on being more like girlfriend/boyfriend... Did you reply?
Maybe he's sitting at his place thinking that YOU don't want to be with him anymore? Guys get scared too sometimes, you know.
How about you don't text him but call him up instead. Generally these things are easier to settle through a phone call or a visit than through text, because whereas text contains a message, a persons voice contain so many more nuances. And it's so much quicker.
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reader, luvme247 +, writes (19 February 2007):
 Don't look into it too much. I don't think that he meant to not text you back. I'm sure he just got busy. Give him a call. If you text him, don't respond to the last one he sent asking why he never texted you back. Just start a new text. You just had a talk with him about your relationship & I am sure that a week later he still feels the same way. I don't think this is a break up, I think he just got busy. Good Luck to you.
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