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I'm 18 - how do I tell my mum about my 36 year old divoriced boyfriend?!

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Question - (18 February 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 6 March 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *rop dead katie writes:

I am in a very sticky situation, i am nearly 18, and i really fancied this older person who is 36, he had a wife, and they were happily married until December, when she dumped him for a 56 yr old! Me and her husband went out for a work do, and got very drunk, and he took me off into a quiter enviroment and he started to kiss me. Since he has been sorting out his divorce, he has spolit me rotten bought me a gorgeous and very expensive necklace, taken me out nearly every single night and invited me on holiday with him. I want to tell my mum about him but i am scared she will freak out because he is really old but i dont think about the age, i think about the person that he is, i need to tell my mum before we get serious, what should i say?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2007):

dont know if ur going to read this but i posted on here about about my 34 yr old bf, and how it would be "fun" telling my mum...WELL i did!!! and it went really well, she didnt freak out or try and talk me out of it, she is happy that i have found someone who makes me happy, so tell your mum, im sure she will be fine about it!!

Good luck xx

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A female reader, xBadabingbadaboomx United Kingdom +, writes (19 February 2007):

xBadabingbadaboomx agony auntgo for it!!

im in the same situation, im 17 my bf is 34.

should be fun, but it wil be worth it in the end, i hope.

dont worry abt it, at the end of the day im sure ur parents will be happy if they know u r.

Good luck

x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2007):

Just tell her. You will feel like a burden has been lifted off your shoulders.

Mom will appreciate being included, eventually.

I don't think it is as bad as it may be in your head. If I were Mom...I would want to know and meet the man.

It will all work out. Trust in your Mom and trust in your heart.

Best Wishes.

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