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Have I scared him off already??

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Question - (18 February 2007) 9 Answers - (Newest, 18 February 2007)
A female United Kingdom, anonymous writes:

Ok...last night n this club i met this amazing and great lookin guy (im 18 hes 25) i very rarely feel a connection with someone but with him i did. We instantly clicked.

He was sayin that he could imagine himself with someone like me. I was kinda acting less interested than i really was so i didnt seem to into him. he was askin me if we could meet up again and that he liked me cause i wasnt throwing myself at him. He asked 4 my number and we kissed but that was it.

He txt me that night and said he would txt me tomorrow before 11 and he did asking me to let him know when i wanted him to take me out so i replied sayin that id let him know....and i asked where he would take me and said where ever i liked....i txt back sayin a meal and a few drinks and its been all afternoon and night and he hasnt txt me back yet! Have i scared him off already?! surely if he was as inerested as he said he would have txt me back by now!! please let me know what u think ...... thanks

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2007):

Patience is a virtue (as is good grammar).

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A male reader, Ponungalungb United States +, writes (18 February 2007):

Ponungalungb agony auntQuick, somebody check on Kenny. I think he's passed out with his finger on the "Add Your Answer" button. LOL.

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom +, writes (18 February 2007):

kenny agony auntLike CD says give him more time. He text you what you wanted to do, and you replied a meal and drinks. Maybe he is trying to find or book a nice place for the two of you to eat.

I would not at this stage text him back asking why he hasen't replied, besides its way to early days to right him off yet. I would send him a text on Thursday evening and say " Hey r we still on for that meal & drinks then " and see what happens. Im sure you are worrying about nothing.

Hope it goes well x

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom +, writes (18 February 2007):

kenny agony auntLike CD says give him more time. He text you what you wanted to do, and you replied a meal and drinks. Maybe he is trying to find or book a nice place for the two of you to eat.

I would not at this stage text him back asking why he hasen't replied, besides its way to early days to right him off yet. I would send him a text on Thursday evening and say " Hey r we still on for that meal & drinks then " and see what happens. Im sure you are worrying about nothing.

Hope it goes well x

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom +, writes (18 February 2007):

kenny agony auntLike CD says give him more time. He text you what you wanted to do, and you replied a meal and drinks. Maybe he is trying to find or book a nice place for the two of you to eat.

I would not at this stage text him back asking why he hasen't replied, besides its way to early days to right him off yet. I would send him a text on Thursday evening and say " Hey r we still on for that meal & drinks then " and see what happens. Im sure you are worrying about nothing.

Hope it goes well x

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom +, writes (18 February 2007):

kenny agony auntLike CD says give him more time. He text you what you wanted to do, and you replied a meal and drinks. Maybe he is trying to find or book a nice place for the two of you to eat.

I would not at this stage text him back asking why he hasen't replied, besides its way to early days to right him off yet. I would send him a text on Thursday evening and say " Hey r we still on for that meal & drinks then " and see what happens. Im sure you are worrying about nothing.

Hope it goes well x

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom +, writes (18 February 2007):

kenny agony auntLike CD says give him more time. He text you what you wanted to do, and you replied a meal and drinks. Maybe he is trying to find or book a nice place for the two of you to eat.

I would not at this stage text him back asking why he hasen't replied, besides its way to early days to right him off yet. I would send him a text on Thursday evening and say " Hey r we still on for that meal & drinks then " and see what happens. Im sure you are worrying about nothing.

Hope it goes well x

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom +, writes (18 February 2007):

kenny agony auntLike CD says give him more time. He text you what you wanted to do, and you replied a meal and drinks. Maybe he is trying to find or book a nice place for the two of you to eat.

I would not at this stage text him back asking why he hasen't replied, besides its way to early days to right him off yet. I would send him a text on Thursday evening and say " Hey r we still on for that meal & drinks then " and see what happens. Im sure you are worrying about nothing.

Hope it goes well x

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A female reader, cd206 United Kingdom +, writes (18 February 2007):

cd206 agony auntGive him time!! You know what boys are like, he's probably watching football or got caught up doing his weekend drinking thing with the boys. Give it til Wednesday and if he hasn't texted by then ask him to let you know since you've got a chance of going out at the weekend and if he's busy you'll take up those plans. Nothing will bother him more than you planting the seed in his head that you might have another date, but give him a chance first!!

CD

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