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anonymous
writes:i really like this guy but he says that were too good of mates to do any thing, what should i do to try and get him??ive liked this guy for ages on and off and lately weve become really good mates. and for that reason he wont think about me more than a friend. but if he did then we maybe get together. and i want to know what i should do to try get him. and i know there are other people around but no one will look at me twice so i cant get many people. people say im pretty but im not and i dont have a bad body so i can do most things. any advice will be greatly apresiated please help! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2007): Don't try to "get him." Just accept that he's a good friend and let it go at that.
At 13 you are too young to be attempting more, in any case.
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reader, kenny +, writes (28 February 2007):
 Some really strong relationships stem from being really good mates first.
Test the water with this guy, i suggest you adopt some light flirting techniques to get it over how you feel. Try to catch his eye and hold eye contact with him, then smile and look away.
Always find an excuse to touch him, be interested in what he does, or is doing. And laugh at what he says, even if its not that funny. You will know if the flirting is being reciprocated or not, if it is you can take it to the next level.
Don't think you are not pretty, if people say you are then you are, listen to them and believe it.
Good luck x
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