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writes:Hi, this is going to be very short, I am so attacted to mature womens, (aged 45-55), I am only 37, is this normal? should I be worry? I am not saying I don't like the younger age, but they just don't do it for me the same.please adviceThanks Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2008): I sense the barriers are falling as to older women and younger men. Some high profile women are now seeing younger guys. I see nothing wrong it within certain limits. I wouldn't condone older women and underage guys or teacher student relationships. Other than that, why not? My first sexual experience was at 16, almost 17, with a 32 year old divorced woman. 16 was legal age of consent in the state were I was living. She was not a teacher of mine, but taught me plenty in the bedroom. Even so, in the small town where we lived, people would have rolled their eyes and thought it was awful. My parents would have sh*t if they had known, but we were very careful and no one ever knew, though my older brother suspected. I was emotionally mature enough to handle it and I enjoyed the experiences. I didn't feel I was taken advantage of and my psyche wasn't scarred. We had a lot of sex during the year we saw each other. She enjoyed it, I enjoyed it. What can I say. With that earlier experience, I now have a very broadminded view of older women. While I am not totally hung up on older women, I will date an attractive much older woman and happily have sex with her if she is willing. Some, with a bit of convincing, are willing. I have learned to be pretty persuasive. I keep our sex very discreet. Older women seem embarrrassed to have their friends know they bedded a much younger guy. At my present age of 26, the age range has been a bit younger than me to the oldest being 53. I have had 5 in which the age difference was greater than 10 years. The 53 year old looked much younger. She was attractive in her own way, a bit chunky, but a very nice personality and she was every bit as horny as I was. We had sex three different times and it was fabulous for us both. Variety does make life interesting.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2007): No reason to be worried, so you like older women,,, so what? Everyone has there preference, just liking, blondes brunettes and so on. I think it's refreshing to see older women with younger men. Men have been doing it forever(dating women half there age) Whats good for the goose is good for the gander :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2007): how about a 16 year old and a 25 year old?
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reader, Gwyneth  +, writes (28 February 2007):
 I think it's wonderful that you like older women. Women are like fine wine, they only improve with age. I mean, look at Monica Bellucci?! She's 42. And, Helen Mirren! She's 60 something, and she's seriously sexy. I say, you only live once. Enjoy what you enjoy! Older, younger, whatever.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2007): What is it exactly that you like about older women? That we are women and not girls?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2007): I am 50 and I have dated younger men than you, and I am single by the way! I like younger men because they are usually less controlling then the older men, and I am young at heart and like to laugh and play around and generally act goofy when I want to, and I find younger guys more interested in playing, more active, not couch potatoes, and they like to make important decisions together, and we are more sexually compatible as I am sort of at my peak and confident and sensual, more so than when I was younger....so I think it is a great idea and better than "normal".
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reader, kenny +, writes (28 February 2007):
 Like shandy pop say's age is only a number. If you feel comfortable dating other woman then go for it. Don't ever feel like its wrong, you feel its right and thats all that matters.
Good luck
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (28 February 2007):
 Hi,
Well i have never been out with a guy older than me. They are always 3-5 years younger. I dont know why, it just seems to happen that way.
My boyfriend has always gone for older women. When he was 18 he had a G/F of 34. I think thats a bit much but hey, who is to say thats not ok.
He is only 3 years younger than me, but i definatly have more stamina.
So thank goodness there are guys like you, making us older girls feel great.
Well done XX
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2007): Normal? I don't know. I could also adore older women... 8] My last two girlfriends were 2 and 3 years older than me. Yum! 8]
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2007): The thing i always say is, age is only a number. Why do some people get so hung up with it. It you fancy someone younger or older it doesn't matter. If you fall in love with them you shouldn't feel guilty either. Just let yourself be you and go for it.
Take care
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