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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi allMy ex and I are together again... we dated only for 2 months but our relationship didnt work. We started off very fine when we were dating then, but 3 weeks down the line he was emotionally shut, he withdrew from the relationship, but kept saying that he loves me a lot, but he cudnt spend time with me, even though we would speak on the phone more than two times a day....i decided to dump him because the r/ship was just not working... 3 months down the line he started calling me back and he desperately wanted us to go back together. I was already dating this other guy... but things didnt work out with the other guy as well.... we had different issues.Now i have decided to give it a go with my ex... We met over the weekend and spent some time together. It was nice. When we spoke about why we broke up... it turned out he was going through a tough time when we were dating... his ex was due and she was giving birth on the month we dated. She was not made pregnant by him, but by another person. They broke up a year ago.....but he told me memories of his ex were always on his head and he was obsessing about her. Now he wants to make it up to me and he was asking me what do i prefer in a r/ship now... he has realised how much he loved me after i broke things off with him. I just fell in love with him again.... wise move??? please advise
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reader, mwest  +, writes (28 February 2007):
Sorry, but I have to disagree with Shandy Pop. I was in the same exact situration that you are in and I can't be more happier that I've gotten back with my ex. We dated for 8 months and then he broke it off with me because he was going through a rough time. We still hung out a lot while we were broken up and finally after 4 1/2 months we made it official again and things are even better than they were before. What I'm trying to say is, follow your heart. If you really and truly love this person and you connect well together, there is nothing wrong with getting back with an ex(unless he has ever hurt you in anyway). Everybody has there issues in life, including guys, that they need to sort out before they can have a meaningful relationship with someone. I'm living proof of that one. Take all the advice that you may get but do what's best for yourself. Your the only person that really knows "you". Good luck with you decision and I'm hear if you need more advice. Take care!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2007): Walk and keep on walking, sorry to say this but i do think you deserve better and you two have tried in the past. No, i don't think it is a good idea to get back together. There are loads of lovely people out there. Go out and find a one not an ex!!
Take care
xx
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